I am such a wimp...

Ok what would you do. I'm in a bar tonight and I'm looking around, talking to my best friend, and watching baseball highlights. I am actually thinking to myself, 'how awesome would to be to meet a great girl right now.'

Then I look over and see this girl sitting talk to two of her friends, one of which seems to have a boyfriend. She is looking around, yawning, seemingly bored. She is one of these girls that other people might find cute but, for some reason, I find gorgeous.

I kept looking over my left shoulder about every few minutes. She got hotter and hotter.

I didn't move, and she left after about ten minutes.

Usually I have no trouble going up to girls, but for some reason tonight I chickened out. I was worried about what I would say. I am lame.

Anyways, if you were in my situation would you:

[MyTurn2Raise]

Lame...go up to her and have an awesome conversation

[MyTurn2Raise]

within 3 seconds too

[phil_ivey_fan]

quit being a [censored]... stop second guessing yourself. I never approach girls unless I'm drunk... I get my friends to and then I pull up for the steal... girls love that [censored]...its called having a good wingman like AEKDBet

[ThaSaltCracka]

it is irrelevant what any of us would have done. If you thought she was cute, you should have talked to her. IF you didn't, its because you were nervous. Thats normal man. Talk to THAT girl next time

[ThaSaltCracka]

I realize I didn't give any advice, and thats because there is really no advice any of us can give you, other than just try it. I mean, [censored], who cares, just try.

[dibbs]

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I kept looking over my left shoulder about every few minutes. She got hotter and hotter.

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Here's to alcohol.

[MyTurn2Raise]

What would Brian Boitano do?

Yeah no [censored] dude. I am so pissed at myself. I dated a girl for six months last year because I had the balls to go up to her, and this time I f'd it up.

I only posted this because I wanted to get flamed. Next time maybe I'll have the nuts to go talk to her.

yeah, be careful with that poker stuff. confidence seems somehow tied to variance.