My typical day

[ScottTheFish]

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And what if the money the mother earns is the difference between a university education or not for the child when he get older. Is her actions still selfish? What about if it makes the difference between great and poor healthcare for the child? Is it still selfish?


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Well, there are plenty of ways to play for college when the time comes. Loans, grants, financial aid, or even working and paying for their own college like I did.

The health care or other financial hardship is a fair point. I already said some people don't have a choice, mom has to work. So how about this novel idea: Mom works at night while dad is home, or vice versa. I just blew your mind, right?

Sure the parents don't see each other as much, but they're not babies who need constant attention and teaching. They'll be fine.

Surely you'd agree that's preferable to having the kid spend 8 hours a day in day care.