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11-21-2005, 04:19 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
How long have you guys been dating?
Obviously a club looking to hire girls that will be flirting will tell the girls that they're an upstanding club that will kick men out for manhandling their womem, but that doesn't mean it's true... It's not really that big of a deal, since you don't imply that you can/will give her money (which is probably what she was fishing for when she brought this up with you). If you can't afford her, you can't complain about this job. It's only for a few months anyways... 
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#24
11-21-2005, 06:18 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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How long have you guys been dating? Obviously a club looking to hire girls that will be flirting will tell the girls that they're an upstanding club that will kick men out for manhandling their womem, but that doesn't mean it's true... It's not really that big of a deal, since you don't imply that you can/will give her money (which is probably what she was fishing for when she brought this up with you). If you can't afford her, you can't complain about this job. It's only for a few months anyways... [/ QUOTE ] dating for a bit over 1 year, known her for 1.5 years. Her friend has been working there for awhile and said it is OK, and hasn't been grabed or anything like that.
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#25
11-21-2005, 06:19 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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[ QUOTE ] How long have you guys been dating? Obviously a club looking to hire girls that will be flirting will tell the girls that they're an upstanding club that will kick men out for manhandling their womem, but that doesn't mean it's true... It's not really that big of a deal, since you don't imply that you can/will give her money (which is probably what she was fishing for when she brought this up with you). If you can't afford her, you can't complain about this job. It's only for a few months anyways... [/ QUOTE ] dating for a bit over 1 year, known her for 1.5 years. Her friend has been working there for awhile and said it is OK, and hasn't been grabed or anything like that. [/ QUOTE ] I think if you have someone else recommending the job, than it can't be too bad. Let her try it out... she should know pretty quick if it's an environment she wants to be in.
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#26
11-21-2005, 06:20 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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Can't you find a corner for her to work in America? [/ QUOTE ] its weird how the annonymous internet brings out the troll in people.
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#27
11-21-2005, 06:22 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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Very confident, especially for a guy so far away. [/ QUOTE ] I mean if she is going to have sex with someone else, its going to happen, whether she has this job or not. I have put my trust in her several times before in various ways and she has never let me down. If I thought she was cheating this job wouldn't even concern me, since I'd probably be with someone else
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#28
11-21-2005, 06:25 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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This sounds basically like a Japanese version of Hooters. [/ QUOTE ] Different in that she isin't dressed like a [censored]. Different in that she sits next to the guys and talks to them. 1 good, 1 debatabably bad.
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#29
11-21-2005, 06:26 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
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trust her don't. No other choice. [/ QUOTE ] If I don't trust her I would breakup with her. I don't see any reason not to trust her though.
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#30
11-21-2005, 09:09 PM
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Re: What do I do (girlfriend\'s job)
Er, these wealthy businessmen aren't really paying $60 an hour to go and have drinks, think about it. They can easily do these at bars. Although I've never been to a Kabukara bar a wealthy friend of mine (he belongs in a triad) has told me there are considerable flirting and 'touching' going on despite what anyone tells you. There's a reason why she may not want to discuss this with her parents.
Tough call here. I think it's great that she is being honest with you and I think you should trust her. If you cannot support her financially then I don't think it's fair to tell her what to do. Even if you can totally trust her and she promises that nothing will go on, it still means that she'll find herself in compromising positions everyday. Trust me, she will be propositioned because wealthy people are dicks. If it was me I probably wouldn't want her to do it, not because I can't trust her but because I don't want her to be in compromising positions daily. This is not your standard american bar where you know you will be hit on if you're waitressing, here you're expected to flirt with your clientelle. I would try to find a way where I could support her financially if I could.
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