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#31
10-19-2005, 02:46 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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[ QUOTE ] the truth is women don't really care how you look. they just want to be in love. truth!! [/ QUOTE ] I agree and would add they also like to be appreciated. Clearly from the original post you feel lucky to be dating her. She is probably aware of this and likes it. [/ QUOTE ] She likes it now, but this is exactly what will kill it eventually. Appreciated is one thing, but if you feel "lucky" like you don't deserve them, it will eventually become clear and she'll feel the same thing. 
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#32
10-19-2005, 02:49 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] the truth is women don't really care how you look. they just want to be in love. truth!! [/ QUOTE ] I agree and would add they also like to be appreciated. Clearly from the original post you feel lucky to be dating her. She is probably aware of this and likes it. [/ QUOTE ] She likes it now, but this is exactly what will kill it eventually. Appreciated is one thing, but if you feel "lucky" like you deserve them, it will eventually become clear and she'll feel the same thing. [/ QUOTE ] Just splitting hairs, I think you mean that you feel lucky as in you don't deserve them....and yes that will not be good....man up, realize what you have to offer, what she has to give, and make sure you're on equal ground.
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#33
10-19-2005, 02:54 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
Another observation. The descriptions of you and her don't necessarily tell me whether you're really lucky to be with her or not. Just because she's fit, good-looking and has a good job doesn't make her attractive to me. A girl could easily have those qualites and be completely meh to me.
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#34
10-19-2005, 02:56 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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Another observation. The descriptions of you and her don't necessarily tell me whether you're really lucky to be with her or not. Just because she's fit, good-looking and has a good job doesn't make her attractive to me. A girl could easily have those qualites and be completely meh to me. [/ QUOTE ] [censored].
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#35
10-19-2005, 02:56 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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Yeah my buddy I haven't seen in a while just sent me a picture of this smoking hot blonde chick he's supposedly dating. He's a cheap, balding, overweight 29-year old who looks like he's 40. I refuse to believe/accept this until I see evidence in person. [/ QUOTE ] I've met a bunch of guys who lie about the women they're dating, including showing photos of women they've never even met. That's just the ones who have been caught out by their friends, so I imagine there are a lot more guys like this who just lie a lot about who they're dating and get away with it.
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#36
10-19-2005, 02:56 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
It seems to me women tire easily of a guy that is into his own looks/physique.
It means less time for the guy to be into her looks/body. It also adds pressure of trying to be 'perfect' for him. Ladies? Chime in here please?
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#37
10-19-2005, 02:58 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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[ QUOTE ] Yeah my buddy I haven't seen in a while just sent me a picture of this smoking hot blonde chick he's supposedly dating. He's a cheap, balding, overweight 29-year old who looks like he's 40. I refuse to believe/accept this until I see evidence in person. [/ QUOTE ] I've met a bunch of guys who lie about the women they're dating, including showing photos of women they've never even met. That's just the ones who have been caught out by their friends, so I imagine there are a lot more guys like this who just lie a lot about who they're dating and get away with it. [/ QUOTE ] That's really weird. Why bother? Why do they feel the need to impress people like that?
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#39
10-19-2005, 02:59 PM
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What would be interesting is if someone came on here saying in effect "my girlfriend is a dog-faced fat ass". [/ QUOTE ] They don't call them girlfriends anymore when they get like that. The correct term is wife.
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#40
10-19-2005, 02:59 PM
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Re: I\'m one of those guys...
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[ QUOTE ] Another observation. The descriptions of you and her don't necessarily tell me whether you're really lucky to be with her or not. Just because she's fit, good-looking and has a good job doesn't make her attractive to me. A girl could easily have those qualites and be completely meh to me. [/ QUOTE ] [censored]. [/ QUOTE ] What did that mean? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]
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