Would You Pop her Cherry?

Cunning Linguist · #1 09-30-2005, 01:38 PM

So I've been dating this girl since early september and she announced to me the other day that she is still a virgin. In case it is pertinent, she turned 19 in August and I am 23. There is nothing wrong with this girl, no deformities or ugliness, in case you're wondering. She told me last night she wants to bone (not quite verbatim).

This piece of information puts forth a difficult moral dilemma for me.
You see, I like this girl, sort of. She likes me a whole f'n lot. She also thinks I like her much more than I actually do. I enjoy spending time with her, and she's attractive to me, but I don't see this lasting very long. I doubt it lasts until Halloween. I do wish I liked her more, there's just something missing.

This girl likes me much more than she should after only one month. If I pop her cherry, she's probably going to think we're going to be together forever (she's a bit clingy) and tell me she loves me, etc. etc.

So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?
Would you take a girls virginity if you really didn't think it wouldn't last?

PS. Assume you're not a desprit, sex-depraved OOT'iot.

M2d · #2 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

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This girl likes me much more than she should after only one month. If I pop her cherry, she's probably going to think we're going to be together forever (she's a bit clingy) and tell me she loves me, etc. etc.

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run
far
quickly

jakethebake · #3 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

SIIHP

LetYouDown · #4 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

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PS. Assume you're not a desprit, sex-depraved OOT'iot.

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You really lowered your sample size with that request.

PoBoy321 · #5 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

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So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?

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Do you mean, do I think you're a pussy for not taking advantage of a girl who's infatuated with you and willing to give up something that she's been saving her entire life for someone special, who she wrongly thinks is you?

codewarrior · #6 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

Yes. Yes you should. Dumbass.

MrTrik · #7 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

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Affirmative.

pearljam · #8 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

It depends on your basic life principles, if you care about this girl and generally try to be a good person you really shouldnt do it. If you want to be a self centered prick the rest of your life go ahead and tap it though.

#9 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

Doing this will add minimum 6 months on to your relationship if you don't plan on being a d!ck about it. 4 months if you are a smooth-talker. 3 months if you are smooth and start working your magic ASAP.

If she wants to do it just to get it over with, then by all means, be the one.

PoBoy321 · #10 09-30-2005, 01:43 PM

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If she wants to do it just to get it over with, then by all means, be the one.

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I will completely agree with this, but based on the OP, it doesn't seem like it's the case, although in fairness, it's likely that her infatuation is just as a result of her desperate need to get laid.