Would You Pop her Cherry?

[The Dude]

Don't do it. There are plenty of other girls that don't carry baggage to have sex with. Find one of them, or find someone you're willing to try staying with long enough to work through the baggage.

[gildwulf]

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"I think you're a cool chick who deserves a wonderful experience for your first time. As good as it makes me feel that you think of me this way, I think you should know that if we do it, it doesn't necessarily validate the relationship like you think it is going to. We haven't been dating that long, and I personally don't necessarily think this going to be a long term thing and I don't want to take advantage of you. If you want to have sex, I am not going to turn you down, but I don't want you to have false expectations about our relationship."

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Saying this will most likely get you three things:

1) crying
2) no sex
3) more crying

[ptmusic]

If you can be open to the possibility that YOU might really be interested in her afterwards (it does happen to guys too you know), then go for it.

If you are totally sure there is no chance you'd ever last with her, then don't. You will regret it. But ask yourself - why is there no chance? What is really wrong with her? You said "nothing". If that's true - you're an idiot for not opening your mind up to future possibilities.

-ptmusic

[Jersey Nick]

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
"I think you're a cool chick who deserves a wonderful experience for your first time. As good as it makes me feel that you think of me this way, I think you should know that if we do it, it doesn't necessarily validate the relationship like you think it is going to. We haven't been dating that long, and I personally don't necessarily think this going to be a long term thing and I don't want to take advantage of you. If you want to have sex, I am not going to turn you down, but I don't want you to have false expectations about our relationship."

[/ QUOTE ]

Saying this will most likely get you three things:

1) crying
2) no sex
3) more crying

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Which is waaaay better than:
1) Akward messy painful sex (for her) so-so sex (for him)
which will lead to:
2) An unwanted deep emotional attachment
after months of rejection she will become:
3) A stalker

[gildwulf]

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
"I think you're a cool chick who deserves a wonderful experience for your first time. As good as it makes me feel that you think of me this way, I think you should know that if we do it, it doesn't necessarily validate the relationship like you think it is going to. We haven't been dating that long, and I personally don't necessarily think this going to be a long term thing and I don't want to take advantage of you. If you want to have sex, I am not going to turn you down, but I don't want you to have false expectations about our relationship."

[/ QUOTE ]

Saying this will most likely get you three things:

1) crying
2) no sex
3) more crying

[/ QUOTE ]
Which is waaaay better than:
1) Akward messy painful sex (for her) so-so sex (for him)
which will lead to:
2) An unwanted deep emotional attachment
after months of rejection she will become:
3) A stalker

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Did I recommend having sex with this girl in my post?

[EMcWilliams]

Thank Steven Tyler for this one...

"Sex is like a gun...you aim, you shoot, haha, you run"

[Cunning Linguist]

Cherry popped.
Thanks for trying.

May post a trip report later.

[jakethebake]

[ QUOTE ]
Cherry popped.
Thanks for trying.

May post a trip report later.

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I'm pretty sure we all knew which way this would go before anyone ever posted.

[Slow Play Ray]

[ QUOTE ]
Cherry popped.
Thanks for trying.

May post a trip report later.

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congrats!

[Yeti]

[ QUOTE ]

If I can't control myself in the heat of the moment and end up doing it, I promise a full uncensored trip report of both cherry popping sex and the mess that will ensue if I do decide to break up with her afterwards. It's the least I can do.

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Don't let us down, son.