Masturbation After Sex at 19 -- How strange is this?

[ThaSaltCracka]

I agree. I can give expert advice, as I am currently staying at a Holiday Inn Express, but I simply just choose not to.

[MasterShakes]

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both of you are weird, and I mean that simply because I have no clue what your problem is. Hopefully an expert can weigh in.

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What do you mean? This place is full of expert psychologists, psychotherapists, and probably even psychiatrists. So, by the end of tomorrow we should have well over 15-20 experts, not just one. In fact, the guy who told the OP to kill himself is obviously a professional (if not a genius). So, we already have one expert. Basically, the bottom line is, if you have a serious problem (not that this one is at all), you come to OOT.

craig

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This seems like a situation where it's FAR stranger to the outside observer than it is to me. I shrug it off now, as it isn't at all an ongoing problem. It wasn't much of a problem to me at the time either. I didn't constantly think, "damn... I wish I could come." I honestly had absolutely no clue of what it felt like or how to get there.

What makes this even stranger is that I wasn't brought up in an abnormally sheltered manner. I grew up in a smaller city. I saw porn at a relatively early age. It wasn't a religious household. Everything but this subject is quite ordinary.

[ThaSaltCracka]

this gets stranger and stranger.

[craig r]

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Though I was an extremely horny teenager, I never masturbated TO COMPLETION until I was 19 years old.

I had sex for the first time at age 18, lasted over an hour before stopping, and never had sex to completion until I had sex with the same girl for the third time.

I don't think I have ever experienced "blue balls".



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Somewhat similiar to me.

I'm 21 now, didn't start having sex until I was 18.

Didn't start masturbating until I was 15

The first time someone got me off was when my girlfriend gave me head, and it took over 30 minutes the first time. I wasn't under the influence whatsoever.

The first time I had sex I couldn't get off by having sex, so she had to give me head again.

Usually when I have sex it takes me anywhere between 10-15 minutes to get off. I kinda have control over when I want to blow. I think it's just a mental thing. I remember before the first time I had sex thinking "I don't wanna be the one-minute man, and I think I'm exactly the opposite due to me fretting over it. I get off much quicker from blowjobs. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

I have no idea what blueballs are either (racketball maybe?)

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I think you and the OP are looking for a quick fix for a problem that can't be solved in one posting. I think we at OOT should give you advice, and then in one week, you let us know how things are going, and we will give you more advice. I think if we do it like this we can get to the root of the problem. Now, it is doubtful that either of your insurance plans will cover this, but I know Shakes can pay with sports betting information and maybe you can teach me how to go longer than 3-4 minutes. But, I think we all have to agree to take this seriously or it isn't going to work.

Okay, seriously, I don't see how either of you have a problem. It must suck, Landon, that you can go for 15 minutes. That is horrible; poor girl that is taking it. And maybe you didn't get off from the bj when you were younger because she sucked at it and you were nervous. If a girl can get me to finish by giving me head, she is really good at it.

And Shakes, what do you mean you never masturbated to completion? Like, no matter how hard you tried you wouldn't cum or you felt guilty, got nervous, etc.... so you stopped? And maybe you were just nervous with the girl. But, if it is all good now with you, why you worried?

craig

p.s. There is also the chance both of you are gay. Well, in that case, problem solved. Landon meet Shakes. Shakes meet Landon. OOT, better than myspace?

[MasterShakes]

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But, if it is all good now with you, why you worried?


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This isn't worry at all, just pure curiosity.

I don't know how to answer the question about not being able to finish. It has been almost ten years. I have absolutely no explanation for it.

I'm not gay.
I'm not considering killing myself.
I'm not considering therapy.

Hi Shakes,

The women that youve been with must love your endurance. Keep up the good work fella.

Completely Yours,
Bright

[Dex]

How often did you have wet dreams?

I'll bet you had them fairly frequently. If not, your prostate must have been on the verge of exploding.

[swolfe]

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Anyone else think after reading the subject that he was 19 years old and was so horny that after having sex he would then masturbate?

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a friend of mine in high school was a sex machine...apparently he would have sex with his girlfriend for hours, then, when she was too sore and tired, he'd look at internet porn and masterbate a few times.

we used to call him "leatherdick".

[pokerdirty]

You obviously know this is strange. What possessed you to post this?

[Sponger15SB]

I knew a guy who had sex before masturbating, he was 12 when he first had sex though.