Dating and rejection

[Michael Davis]

"Good to here now email that other chick tell her she miss out and your too good for her....."

I think that indicates a medium psychological problem.

-Michael

[The Yugoslavian]

Vnh.

You give hope to 2+2, ShawnHoo [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img].

Sup bro ain't got nothin' on you when you're up in da club.

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Yugoslav

[fire_fly]

grunching

sucks, but what she said means "I'm not attracted to you."

Sorry, but I've been there enough times to know whats up. Don't give up though, there's somebody out there for ya.

[ChipWrecked]

I met my wife on Match.

We emailed a few days, then had a phone call where I shouted at her and told her I didn't give a goddamn about whatever it was she was talking about.

We dated, got tight, she [censored] with me in various ways including leaving her profile out on Match.

I dumped her.

That was the kicker. She had to have me. [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

Our daughter turns two in a couple of weeks.

Not giving a damn rules.

Way to hang.

[hotdog da 2rd]

good grief shawnhoo! pls tell me you were on the WE channel! not that i watch that channel or anything.

[HesseJam]

No spark => you're out!

LBFs + the ball is in your court => very bad on many levels. Suggestion of LBF is a typical sign that she sees promising social value in you but only little sexual value. Women like to network to accumulate back up ressources. "Ball is in your court" is the first test if you will be of future service to her.

Fold!

Next!

[ShawnHoo]

Uhh... you didn't read my update, eh?

Dude she sounds like a psycho w/ that mind game crap. Muck her.

[samjjones]

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Guys,

Thanks for collectively kicking my ass.

I definitely came across as way too needy. I needed to be bold, decisive, and assertive; instead I was weak-tight.

Not too long after that date, I was contacted by another girl from match. She didn't have a pic on her profile, but I figured "What the hell? Perhaps I can use this as a chance to start being more assertive with women and if we end up hitting it off, all the better."

We ended up exchanging hundreds of short emails over the course of a couple of weeks. There was a lot of teasing and ball-busting back and forth. She's a lawyer, so she's more mature than most women I've dated, and we have a lot in common. I never pushed for a date until I knew that I wanted one, and by that point I knew she was ready too.

So we meet up at a local bar and she's a total hottie. Easily one of the two best-looking women I've dated in my life. She shows up 30 minutes late (she had called ahead to let me know she was at a company function that was running late) and I get in a couple of jabs about it. I felt very much in control the entire night and had the mindset of "how can she show me that she's interested" instead of the other way around.

I end up going in for a kiss about an hour in and get warmly received. Three beers and several more kisses later, she drops me off at my place (I live right around the corner and she had driven there). I check my email later that night and she's written me 15 minutes after dropping me off saying what a great time she had.

We've been out a bunch since then. The conversations have been great; the chemistry/sex has been mind-blowing. The kicker? She's told me on several occasions how she was super-attracted to how confident I was on our first date.

We'll see what comes of this, but thanks to you guys for helping to put my head back on straight.

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Good follow-up, and congrats. Its weird how things seem to work themselves out like that.

[DcifrThs]

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I'm not about to settle for someone who's not intelligent and attractive

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arrogant?? settle? f*ck no.

Barron