Opening Lines for Chicks @ Coffee Shops

[Malachii]

I've been working on my game lately and trying gets numbers from chicks at coffee shops. While I'm not a ladies man like TT or whoever, I'm also not a shy guy. Starting up a conversation and not having it go anywhere doesn't really bother me. What I DO have a problem with is that first few seconds where I spot a chick I'm interested in... I can't think of anything to say, and by the time I come up with something I have a hard time "pulling the trigger" and going up to her. I'd like something that I can just say right away to get me into the flow of things.

What are some standard opening lines that fellow OOTers use in my situation? And please, no corny pick up lines, I'm looking for something that people actually use.

its all about saying somthing about them.

[Malachii]

Example?

[diebitter]

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Example?

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer. Watch carefully for any gladeye, and if it's there, you've got your shot.

I'm not kidding.

[Malachii]

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer.

I'm not kidding.

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Does that really work? It seems so... simple. I'll try it out tomorrow and give you a trip report. I have to say that despite my dashing good lucks, I have low expectations.

[diebitter]

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer.

I'm not kidding.

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Does that really work? It seems so... simple. I'll try it out tomorrow and give you a trip report. I have to say that despite my dashing good lucks, I have bad expectations.

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To be honest, I can't be sure. I never approach women in this way, and have done this inadvertently twice in my life, but thought I was actually talking to someone I know. Both times, I could see interest in their eyes, but realised my mistake (both times I only saw the girl in profile at first, and it was a genuine mistake), but was caught off guard and just apologized for my mistake and left it. I felt bad about one of them, cos she looked quite despondent as I backed away, made a sad face, and said quite sweetly, "oh, that's alright, I really don't mind..." (I was seeing someone, if any of you are wondering why I left the scene). I think she thought I was doing a line, seen her properly, and changed my mind...

[The Truth]

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer.

I'm not kidding.

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Does that really work? It seems so... simple. I'll try it out tomorrow and give you a trip report. I have to say that despite my dashing good lucks, I have low expectations.

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If I did roll with this one. I would just sit down at her table (acting like i'm supposed to be there) while I said it. She'll be confused cause you know, who the hell does this guy think he is. Then hope she reopens the conversation before I have to.

Just act like you run the place. Alot of the time I just do stuff to see how the girl will react. If she is reacting at all its good.

Try to always be happy to

blake

[diebitter]

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer.

I'm not kidding.

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Does that really work? It seems so... simple. I'll try it out tomorrow and give you a trip report. I have to say that despite my dashing good lucks, I have low expectations.

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If you look okay, are clean and reasonably well-dressed, and don't just dribble, have a voice like Mr Bean, hum to yourself or say something like 'who you callin a psycho?' as the follow up, I'd say very good chances. And welcome to the next part of your life. Have fun now!


PS. make 'Confidence not ego' your watchwords.

[beset7]

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer.

I'm not kidding.

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Does that really work? It seems so... simple. I'll try it out tomorrow and give you a trip report. I have to say that despite my dashing good lucks, I have low expectations.

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Eye contact. Don't forget eye contact.

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Example?

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"Hi! How's it going?" and a nice smile, as opposed to inane grin or evil leer. Watch carefully for any gladeye, and if it's there, you've got your shot.

I'm not kidding.

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diebitter,

Whenever I open these threads, I skip strait to your responses.