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Old 11-18-2005, 03:59 PM
kenberman kenberman is offline
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Default Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

No, I can't post pics.

background: I'm a mid-level manager...1 step below exec. committe at my company. about 7 people higher up than me (title wise), maybe 20 equal to me, and 30 underneath me. again, all title wise. I'm 30yo.

a newish girl at work is very cute, and seems to have taken a liking to me. she's 21/22. she is at the bottom rung of the totem pole, and although neither she nor her manager report directly to me, they kinda do in a matrix (not movie, but org structure) sort of way.

is there anyway hooking up with this girl can not lead to a bad workplace scenario?
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:00 PM
miajag81 miajag81 is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

No, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:01 PM
TheWorstPlayer TheWorstPlayer is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

Yeah. Get her fired first. While she's still working at the company, no good can come of it. There are plenty of cute, willing girls who work elsewhere. Or just get her fired.
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:01 PM
swede123 swede123 is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

Two possible scenarios.

1) You quit.

2) She quits.

Not what you want to hear but such is life.

Swede
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:03 PM
kenberman kenberman is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

I'm not looking for a relationship with her, just a good time.

I suppose that is also relevant information I should have given.

it's also a reason why neither of us would even consider quiting for one another.
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:03 PM
Ulysses Ulysses is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

Pls PM me pics and I will tell you whether the risk/reward is worth it.
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:04 PM
Shajen Shajen is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

I believe it was me who said: "Don't [censored] where you eat"
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:04 PM
arod15 arod15 is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

[ QUOTE ]
No, I can't post pics.

background: I'm a mid-level manager...1 step below exec. committe at my company. about 7 people higher up than me (title wise), maybe 20 equal to me, and 30 underneath me. again, all title wise. I'm 30yo.

a newish girl at work is very cute, and seems to have taken a liking to me. she's 21/22. she is at the bottom rung of the totem pole, and although neither she nor her manager report directly to me, they kinda do in a matrix (not movie, but org structure) sort of way.

is there anyway hooking up with this girl can not lead to a bad workplace scenario?

[/ QUOTE ]

Nothing but bad can come of this.
That being said I would do in a heartbeat, I have done it past, horrible things happened, but ill do it again........
You only live once.....
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:05 PM
TheWorstPlayer TheWorstPlayer is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

You'll notice I said nothing about quitting.
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Old 11-18-2005, 04:05 PM
CollinEstes CollinEstes is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers

Hook up once with her. Make it seem the next day like it was a huge mistake and convice her that you too should go your seperate ways.

Be careful though, because at her age you could be looking at a potiental stage 5 clinger.
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