Masturbation After Sex at 19 -- How strange is this?

[ohnonotthat]

Um, didn't know how ?

- When I was 19 I didn't know how NOT to.

BTW, I was in Akron with my girlfriend on the day it "finally happened".

She thought it was an animal in pain but I told her it was just Shakes spooging for the first time. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Unusual ?

- Absolutely

Problematic ?

- I can't imagine how.

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I'm curious as to HER reaction the first two times.

Did she mention it or was she unaware ?

- In other words, did you fake it for either her or your benefit ?

[MasterShakes]

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I'm curious as to HER reaction the first two times.

Did she mention it or was she unaware ?

- In other words, did you fake it for either her or your benefit ?

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Those are pretty good questions.

No, I didn't fake it the first time.

I don't know if she thought that something strange had happened (i.e., my first orgasm ever at 18). I think she knew that, as enjoyable as orgasms are, it was an unusually intense orgasm. She didn't say anything though.

[BigBaitsim (milo)]

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With apologies for the un-OOT-like serious response, human sexuality is quite variable and the OP may be entirely normal, that is, without disorder, although his sexuality is atypical. It is unusual for a 19 year-old male to not experience orgasm, or to have difficulty reaching orgasm. More concerning would be a lack of interest in sexuality, especially if accompanied by delayed puberty.

Bottom line, if you are not troubled by this, it is probably nothing to worry about. Nonetheless, low sexual functioning, low desire or ability can be a sign of an endocrine problem or other medical illness, and merits a trip to the doctor for an assessment.

The OP says he has had a normal sexual life since, so it seems like little to worry about. What we do not know, is what he considers "normal." In my practice, I've seen people for whom "normal" means having sex twice a year, and others who define "normal" as masturbating 6 times a day, every day.

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I think this is the most rational answer so far.

Also, what about if one has sex twice a year and masturbates 6 times a day (finding out for a friend)

craig

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You, er, your friend, are fine so long as your solitary activity does not detract from your life, just like any other hobby. Six times a day can be hard on the old fella, so I'd recommend you use a good quality lubricant to avoid damage.

[OtisTheMarsupial]

I think the average age for men to start masturbating is 13 and for women it's closer to 20. The average penis is 4-5 inches long. The average American woman is a size 14. The average IQ is 100.

So you're not average. Since when has this ever been a problem before? You're happy now, right? So deal.

[diebitter]

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The average penis is 4-5 inches long.

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I#m so happy right now - I never knew this [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Anyone know the standard deviation - I wanna work out my percentile...

[craig r]

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The average penis is 4-5 inches long.

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Wow, I have been having a rough day as it is. And now, well, should I use a gun or just hang myself (pills are not an option, I don't want to get addicted).

craig

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The average penis is 4-5 inches long.


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Whenever Im feeling depressed about something I just remember that I have an 8 inch dick and that nobody can take that away from me. Its helped get me through some tough times.

[The Truth]

xanax..... any real suicidal druggy would know how to spell it.
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[Oblivious]

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I had sex for the first time at age 18, lasted over an hour before stopping, and never had sex to completion until I had sex with the same girl for the third time.

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This is normal for sex newbies.

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that nobody can take that away from me.

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Clearly, you've never experienced Koro.

-2kF