Helping a 2+2'er not be self destructive.....

[wacki]

I have a friend who is a long time respected 2+2'er. He caught his mom cheating on his dad. In short, his mom was a generally good mom but was also very scandalous. If that makes sense at all. [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

As a result, he is attracted to scandalous women as well. This habit is causing him much anguish. So, how do you get rid of this self destructive behavior? He is to the point where he wants to change and is reaching out for help.

EDIT: To clarify, scandalous women means women that play mind games hardcore or aren't loyal to their spouse.

-drunk wacki

[meleader2]

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I have a friend who is a long time respected 2+2'er. He caught his mom cheating on his dad. In short, his mom was a generally good mom but was also very scandalous. If that makes sense at all. [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

As a result, he is attracted to scandalous women as well. This habit is causing him much anguish. So, how do you get rid of this self destructive behavior? He is to the point where he wants to change and is reaching out for help.

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in all seriousness...therapy.

get help, and get it professionally done. i'm not in that boat but i've had emotional abuse from my father as a kid and it's being reflected in my personal relationships. i need to get that fixed.

Scandalous women = hookers ? sluts ? Otherwise, I don't know what scandalous women are. How am I supposed to help him ? Once he gets his wallet stolen by a woman, he'll think twice about getting involved with them.

[malokoman]

thats nothing, I have a buddy from high school who caught his mother hooking up with his best friend. This friend was there on in addressed as motherfucker, as in "Whats up motherfucker"

[Stuey]

How does he go about finding them?

[PeeWeeH]

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How does he go about finding them?

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He talks to the ones that have a pulse.

PeeWee

I think we need a whole thread devoted to: "what have you caught your mother doing ? "

[meleader2]

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I think we need a whole thread devoted to: "what have you caught your mother doing ? "

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...or what about uploading pics of our mothers??? *just head shots* [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[CardSharpCook]

head shots?
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[Kirg]

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thats nothing, I have a buddy from high school who caught his mother hooking up with his best friend. This friend was there on in addressed as motherfucker, as in "Whats up motherfucker"

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