qualifying for party VIP bonus

[robinsons]

Hello,
as many people here I used to play the 6max games on the skins until the split. After the split, I decided to sit tight and see what would happen with regards to rakeback on party. After a lot of to-ing and fro-ing, my affiliate informed me he would not be doing rakeback on party, so I began playing last month on party with no rakeback deal. I figured this would probably be the same for most people, and overall would be no bad thing - less slightly losing players playing for rakeback, more money for party to give out in bonuses, VIP bonus could make up for most of rakeback.
I primarily played on other sites last month so only put in about 3500 hands of 5/10 6max on party, and have played about 6000 more so far this month.
I emailed party at the vip@ address to request info about the VIP promotion, however I've been told I don't quality for this.
Whats my best bet at this stage? just wait again and carry on playing hoping that they will notice me at the end of this month (when my monthly total should be around 25-30k hands)? Email them again saying I can play this many?
This is pretty annoying as I seem to have come out of this about as bad as I could - I initially waited for the rakeback situation to clear, thus missing out on very profitable games then, and ended up with no RB deal, and no bonus deal to make up for it either.

Thanks for any advice.

EDIT: I am not looking for any offers for a RB deal. I know they're available, but I have no desire for one.