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#1
12-28-2005, 10:54 PM
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Re: Tapping married women
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[ QUOTE ] If you are going to fix my posts....please do so intelligently... You don't know anything about me....Read the first line of my post....She knew what she was doing....Do I feel bad about it....No....So why should you get on my case... We live in a society where people believe the grass is greener on the other side...I have had several girlfriends with whom I always remained faithful...So I have integrity....What I don't have though is time for people who have something good and let it go to waste....I'll admit, I am very good at listening and can pick up signs that someone is unhappy....I don't take advantage of girls and never have....If I deemed attractive by someone that is unhappy then so be it....Just because they are married, doesn't mean that I'm a scumbag.......IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO !!!! This thread was about "Tapping Married Women"....I made a post about it...Don't change it to make me out to be something that I am quite clearly not.... Regards Vavavoom (Class Personified) [/ QUOTE ] You sat there and posted about how this woman told you she was married for 14 years, and you ended up nailing her. She even told you about her kids. That, my classy friend, is having little or no regard for other people -- as I corrected your post to read. My argument certainly is not to absolve the other scumbag of any responsibilty here, but she's not the one on an internet message board bragging about it. You made a decision that could negatively affect 4 people other than yourself, including 2 kids that had no choice in the matter, just so you could get your dick wet. That's the epitomy of scumbag. I'm sick and tired of people that make abysmal choices and then conveniently relieve themselves of any culpability. I'm sure you go to bed every night with a clear conscience. Good for you. You're very good at "listening", and "picking up signs that someone is unhappy". And you use that magnificent gifts to pork married women. But that's not taking advantage of anybody? Perhaps you should include those skills on your resume...I'm sure they'll serve you well elsewhere. [/ QUOTE ] Wow... I am amazed.....JayLear if you had read my first post I said I didn't nail her but that was the closest I had come.... I'm glad that I have got everyone thinking about whether its right or wrong.....Jeez - I was 18/19 at the time.... I'm going to bed now...but at work tomorrow I will sit down an address this thread correctly....and reply once again... 
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#2
12-28-2005, 11:44 PM
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Re: Tapping married women
It was pretty obvious you would take the 'i didn't nail her' route out of this to keep yourself clear, but it's a [censored] route. I'm sure when she cries the words, 'BUT I ONLY DID EVERYTHING BUT SEX' to her husband he will be very forgiving because of the huge difference that makes. He will probably even change his mind about moving out with the 18 months old baby and 3 year old child.
The 'i was 18!' arguement is also stupid. There are a million hugely important decisions that you consciously make at 18.
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#3
12-29-2005, 05:24 AM
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Re: Tapping married women
Right, I have read through this post:
Aces Mcgee : I never said I wasn't guilty....However much of a scumbag I am, it wasn't one-way.... Ckessel : I'm sure its not a life changing mistake and if it is then it didn't take too much.....Ultimately it had been a long time coming... Slickpoppa : I didn't sleep with this married woman...However, I think a scumbag act is a bit harsh for what is actually occurring... The Once & Future King : [ QUOTE ] Only one that was in the process of getting a divorce. However the good news is that anyone can shag Vavooms wife/GF with moral impunity. Perhaps this would make a good crimson challenge? [/ QUOTE ] Firstly, I believe that I if a woman cheats on her husband, its because she's unhappy....I'll give u a clue that up until now, I've yet to have managed to make a girl that I'm dating etc unhappy.... Not saying that it won't happen...But until it does, I'll go with the fact that I'm a good judge of character and not a selfish person..... 1800Gambler : I'll say it takes "2 to tango" all day long...Its not stupid and it applies to this situation perfectly....I don't go out looking for married women...This situation occurred once after a slightly bizarre set of events.... TomCollins : [ QUOTE ] If she wasn't gonna sleep with you, she would have slept with someone else. It's like taking a gambling addicts money. I have no problem with that as well. [/ QUOTE ] I totally agree with you.... Warsaw : I'm sorry to hear that you have gone through this situation, but you have to ask yourself some questions I feel....She is not totally at fault here....U must have done something along the way to cause her to be unfaithful.... Bison : [ QUOTE ] For others, the humiliation of being that guy who got cheated on. [/ QUOTE ] I think this has something to do with it as well...male pride is very fragile...Not being able to keep the one woman they have is very damaging to this pride... 1800Gambler : [ QUOTE ] It was pretty obvious you would take the 'i didn't nail her' route out of this to keep yourself clear [/ QUOTE ] But I didn't nail her....If I had done, would that have made me an equal scumbag to the one I appear to be now? Hmmmm, because if thats the case then my only regret is that I didn't nail her there and then... As for being 18, I wasn't saying it in the sense of I'm too young to make important decisions, I said it because when you are 18/19, and a 32 fairly attractive woman starts hitting on you, u don't make rational decisions when blind drunk/on holiday @ 5am... After thinking about everything, I stand by what I have done. I think the people that are criticising me are those that possibly have relationships that are not as strong as they would like it to be. Would I do it again, hell yeah! I'm a big believer in "that everything happens for a reason". However, the irony does not fail to amuse me on this website. We have possibly the most posted on thread in this forum regarding sleeping with random girls that we have befriended over the net and then posting about it and that gets more support as everyday goes on. Although I must admit, I am in full awe of this.... We are on a gambling website in which people routinely talk about targeting "The Fish" and breaking the loose cannon and taking all his/her money, and yet a guy going with a married woman is a massive taboo. Dominic hit the nail on the head. These women are bored, they want affection, they want to be found attractive, they want to be desired. Being married doesn't mean you get to switch off and everything will be alright! It means putting someone else ahead of you, and I get the feeling that most of the time a person in a marriage is unfaithful there is most likely a whole heap of stuff that is not immediately obvious. Regards Vavavoom
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#4
12-29-2005, 09:02 AM
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Re: Tapping married women
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But I didn't nail her....If I had done, would that have made me an equal scumbag to the one I appear to be now? Hmmmm, because if thats the case then my only regret is that I didn't nail her there and then... [/ QUOTE ] The Bill Clinton defense...I see. Let me help you...yes, you'd have been an equal scumbag whether you nailed her or "did everything but. [ QUOTE ] As for being 18, I wasn't saying it in the sense of I'm too young to make important decisions, I said it because when you are 18/19, and a 32 fairly attractive woman starts hitting on you, u don't make rational decisions when blind drunk/on holiday @ 5am... [/ QUOTE ] And yet, you say repeatedly that you have no regret... [ QUOTE ] I think the people that are criticising me are those that possibly have relationships that are not as strong as they would like it to be. [/ QUOTE ] I've been happily married for over 10 years now. I can't imagine my relationship stronger. I do however have the inate ability to put myself in somebody else's shoes -- something I recommend you try -- and imagine how my actions will affect them. Also, I have two children, and it's easy for me to see how they're affected by what my wife and I say and do. [ QUOTE ] Would I do it again, hell yeah! [/ QUOTE ] This kind of puts a hole in your "when you are 18/19, and a 32 fairly attractive woman starts hitting on you, u don't make rational decisions when blind drunk/on holiday @ 5am" excuse... [ QUOTE ] We are on a gambling website in which people routinely talk about targeting "The Fish" and breaking the loose cannon and taking all his/her money, and yet a guy going with a married woman is a massive taboo. [/ QUOTE ] You're comparing apples to oranges here, no? [ QUOTE ] Dominic hit the nail on the head. These women are bored, they want affection, they want to be found attractive, they want to be desired. [/ QUOTE ] Hey, whatever helps you sleep at night...doesn't make you less of a scumbag. [ QUOTE ] Being married doesn't mean you get to switch off and everything will be alright! It means putting someone else ahead of you, and I get the feeling that most of the time a person in a marriage is unfaithful there is most likely a whole heap of stuff that is not immediately obvious. [/ QUOTE ] This is exactly why you need to keep you dick in your pants when it comes to married women. Another persons marital problems are not your greenlight.
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#5
12-29-2005, 09:19 AM
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Jeez, this thread has turned into 'scapegoat' mode pretty well, huh.
A buncha guys who've had bad experiences or are scared of the potentials raised here ragging on one guy who's answering the OP. Jeez, if you gotta bitch about it, try not to scapegoat one poster. It's lame. EDIT: That's not to say the points raised are invalid. Far from it. It's just very tiresome for the points to be part of a ragging, when they stand just as well (in fact, better) alone.
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#6
12-29-2005, 11:33 AM
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Re: Tapping married women
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1800Gambler : I'll say it takes "2 to tango" all day long...Its not stupid and it applies to this situation perfectly....I don't go out looking for married women...This situation occurred once after a slightly bizarre set of events.... [/ QUOTE ] YES, THANK YOU FOR EXPLAINING ONCE AGAIN IT TAKES TWO PEOPLE TO HAVE SEX. BOY, I MUST LOOK SILLY DOING WHAT I THOUGHT WAS SEX. ... but that's not the point, i understand it takes two people to have sex! But you are using it as an excuse to clear yourself of any wrong doing.
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