Getting back with Ex's

Tanach · #1 09-28-2005, 02:18 AM

So I broke up w/me gf of 3 years about 3 months ago mostly because I thought I was unhappy in the relationship and she was very clingy/needy. It was tough to do but I thought it was best at the time.

Recently however, I've found myself thinking more and more about her and her good qualities. When we broke up, she promised things would be different, but I didn't budge...now I'm wondering if that was the best course.

If I get back together with her, is the same thing bound to happen? Or have any of you done this and it worked out?

No, TTINWWOP, and yeah, I SIIHP, and thanks for the help.

~jack

#2 09-28-2005, 02:21 AM

you just have to find out for yourself. there's a good chance of it being the same old, but that's not to say it's not worth the risk. go for it.

Tron · #3 09-28-2005, 02:21 AM

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No, TTINWWOP

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Blasphemy.

tdarko · #4 09-28-2005, 02:22 AM

in my experiences i have found out that there was always a reason i originally broke up with my ex, b/c we weren't compatible.

the reuniting will usually start out ok for a few months and then when her same old habits and ticks kick back into high gear you will hate her again.

DeezNuts · #5 09-28-2005, 02:30 AM

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in my experiences i have found out that there was always a reason i originally broke up with my ex, b/c we weren't compatible.

the reuniting will usually start out ok for a few months and then when her same old habits and ticks kick back into high gear you will hate her again.

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Very true. But sometimes you have to experience it again to have complete closure. It doesn't sound like OP has that.

DN

Edge34 · #6 09-28-2005, 02:33 AM

Post deleted because I'm an internet retard...

newfant · #7 09-28-2005, 02:40 AM

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So I broke up w/me gf about 3 months ago mostly because I thought I was unhappy ...

Recently however, I've found myself thinking more and more about her and her good qualities.

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Have you been laid since the breakup?

kurosh · #8 09-28-2005, 03:05 AM

Without is one word.

Chairman Wood · #9 09-28-2005, 03:08 AM

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Have you been laid since the breakup?

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An extremely important question. This may explain a lot.

MyTurn2Raise · #10 09-28-2005, 03:16 AM

life is meant to go forward...not backward

3 months is too soon...part for a whole year...no contact...nothing...act as though she never existed....if after this time, you don't get layed....go crying back to her.