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Old 10-27-2005, 03:54 PM
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I'm going abroad next semester and just started hanging out with a great girl. She is a senior and will have graduated by the time I get back. She's totally great-- funny, smart, pretty, and mostly what I think I'd like to find in a girl. She just got out of a serious (two year) relationship and seems pretty upset about what happened with the guy (he was a real jerk).

So what's my play? Here is another interesting part of this-- she's a virgin. She dated this guy for like two years and they never had sex. Her dad is a minister. We've had some interested conversations about this topic and I guess I'm a little baffled by the whole thing. Should I just keep letting her cook for me and have a great time without anything romantic happening? What do you people think?
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Old 10-27-2005, 03:56 PM
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Old 10-27-2005, 03:56 PM
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Ask Dominic
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Old 10-27-2005, 03:56 PM
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Worth what?
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Old 10-27-2005, 03:58 PM
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ok, worth is maybe a bad word. but what's the play here? can i really just hang out with someone I'm attracted to and not try anything? is it a dick move not to want to get with her because it wouldn't involve sex?
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Old 10-27-2005, 06:54 PM
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is it a dick move not to want to get with her because it wouldn't involve sex?

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No it isn't. If sex isn't involved in a relationship then it isn't worth the time. If you want to try to work your way up to the point where sex is the next step, if she denies you then, to hell with her. This sounds like a case of religous brainwashing to me if you think you can unbrainwash her go for it. If this virginity thing seems set in stone then just fold and don't even think about trying to go all in. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
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Old 10-27-2005, 04:09 PM
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Worth what?

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best point made in this thread. youre not gonna hit it, are you gonna wait till you marry her? :P

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Old 10-27-2005, 03:58 PM
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I opened this thread to see a picture of some hot chick, not a bunch of words and crap.
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Old 10-27-2005, 04:23 PM
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I opened this thread to see a picture of some hot chick, not a bunch of words and crap.

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This was great
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Old 10-27-2005, 03:58 PM
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If it's only one semester and you like her and obviously can TRUST her, stick with her.

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