dating a girl with a lot of guy friends....

[whiskeytown]

disclaimer: - This is not "the cuddler" from last week - totally different girl.

About 3 weeks ago, I had a goodbye party with a coworker - and one of our coworkers brought his roommate, an attractive 35 year old redhead - this is one hell of a girl - this is one that takes our coworker (and her landlord, by proxy) to the nicest strip club in St. Paul on his birthday - (full nudity AND alcohol) -

she was flirting with me and another guy, but she kinda went for him a bit - and I didn't really put up a fight or try - no biggie - but he's 23 and she's 35, so that was NEVER gonna happen.

So now she asked our friend for my number and I said to give it to her - I may hear from her - but there's a couple complications.

1. - she has a LOT of guy friends - now on that note, she has SHOT DOWN a lot of guy friends - I know she was married once, but no biggie

2. - She likes hip hop/dancing/drinking - all things I don't or am trying very hard to not like anymore - LOL

3. - I know for a fact her biological clock is TICKING - as in BAM BAM BAM - she mentioned she had two miscarriages when she was married - which I probably didn't need to know but I'm sure I nodded and looked interested when she told me [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

SO - if she calls - do I play it cool - go for the kill? - and do I really wanna date a girl with a lot of guy friends, even if she's not actually sleeping with them? I dunno - she is very flirty - not a good sign -

and no <sigh> I am not gonna try to SIIHP - god, that joke was so funny....last year.

RB

[meleader2]

if you're the jealous type it's never going to happen anyway so just use her. if ur not the jealous type then there's no problem.

[BeerMoney]

Great, another post to let us know you met a girl.

[captZEEbo1]

what does miscarriages have to do with biological clock ticking....am I missing somethere here?

[RunDownHouse]

Jesus, you're pretty pathetic.

Nobody here can answer those questions or help you in any meaningful way.

[Yeti]

I wouldn't worry about it. It's likely she's not fooling around with these guys, they're probably just heading back to her place to cuddle.

[MrTrik]

Go with the flow and see if it works. You'll get some and have time to decide whether you can deal with some of her stuff.

Worst case: You get some and the relationship doesn't work out. But hey, you both would have some fun as you figured out the fate.

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Jesus, you're pretty pathetic.

Nobody here can answer those questions or help you in any meaningful way.

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Don't hold back. Tell him how you really feel.

[MrTrik]

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what does miscarriages have to do with biological clock ticking....am I missing somethere here?

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Not too bright are ya?

If she was trying to get pregnant before, twice, especially the second time after losing the first .... the biological clock was BAM-BAM-BAM back then and it won't go away until she breeds or her body is no longer capable of it.

[Skjonne]

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1. - she has a LOT of guy friends - now on that note, she has SHOT DOWN a lot of guy friends - I know she was married once, but no biggie

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So what? You want some or you don't? 35 year old virgins are rare these days, you know?


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2. - She likes hip hop/dancing/drinking - all things I don't or am trying very hard to not like anymore - LOL

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So what? You'll find other things to do together. It's not like you have to be together 24/7 is it?

Oh and btw, if you don't like drinking, please change you username (I know you can't) [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]


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3. - I know for a fact her biological clock is TICKING - as in BAM BAM BAM

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Oh, OK. Forget what I said. Just RUN!!11~!1

RUN RUN RUN. Faster faster

yw