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Old 12-02-2005, 11:17 AM
KaneKungFu123 KaneKungFu123 is offline
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Isnt 'average' in the USA borderline-obesse?
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Old 12-02-2005, 12:12 PM
GoblinMason (Craig) GoblinMason (Craig) is offline
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Craig,

Actually the point is he has no balls. He has no pride and is completely owned by a fat chick who isn't even faithful to him. He would let her [censored] some other guy but she would never let him [censored] that stripper. An open relationship is one thing, a one sided open relationship is infidelity.

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If that's true, then yeah she's got your nuts.

I was more talking about how they both do their best to please the other.

-Craig
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Old 12-02-2005, 10:41 AM
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Lets say you really liked a woman and you made a strong connection to her over email, phone, and IM and you too spend hours a night talking to her. Lets also say that she was your complete sexual fantasy and she would do the things to you in bed that you only dream about a woman doing and that would blow your doors off. Finally, you have seen a picture of her face and it is absolutely gorgeous.

The downside is that she is somewhat overweight. However, it doesnt seem to affect her and she is totally confident and at ease with herself.

Would her being overweight affect you and turn you off or would all the other things simply make it not matter?

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I think I've been superdense here! The penny has only just dropped - I think.

Are you asking this from the perspective of this guy talking to your wife?

And therefore hoping he won't find your wife attractive?
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Old 12-02-2005, 11:47 AM
durron597 durron597 is offline
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Default Re: How Important is a Woman\'s Weight

My brother became close friends with a woman who weighed 400 pounds. I'm not sure if I would have ever called them "dating" because my brother told me he had zero physical attraction... but he really liked her, as a person. I have talked to her and she seemed like a really awesome person. It was clear that this woman wanted to marry my brother.

Eventually my brother was like "look, this is just not going to work", physical attraction was one reason, her health was another reason - when someone weighs that much their life expectation is a lot lower and she was also older than my brother (my brother is 32). A third reason is that my brother wants kids.

Now my brother is dating a girl who is tall (5'10"ish i think) and weighs like 190-200 pounds. I like her a lot too (personality wise). She's no supermodel but I would call her above average in looks (so if the national mean is a 5 then she is a 6). And from what I can tell it doesn't matter to him, though he is making her run with him - they just ran a 5k race together.
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Old 12-02-2005, 01:58 PM
JihadOnTheRiver JihadOnTheRiver is offline
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Default Re: How Important is a Woman\'s Weight

I haven't been following the thread and I'm not going to read throught the whole thing, so I'm sure that this has been said, but my answer is:

Incredibly important. A deal breaker to say the least.

-Jihad
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Old 12-02-2005, 04:02 PM
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I think this is an age thing.

Youg'ens want the hot bod. They don't crave sexuality or confidence because more often than not, they don't have it (or know what it is) yet.

As you age, you discover that the rack you were just staring at has a mouth.

So, in short -- yes I think attitude can overcome a slight weight disadvantage. At some point though, there isn't enough attitude in the world.
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Old 12-02-2005, 04:20 PM
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So, Utah, does this seem familiar?

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