WHAT??!?!?!!!!!!!!

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I think the part that makes it confusing is the:
Making out --> Seeing her naked --> ??? --> platonic sleepover... presumably without a third date (until this recent mess)

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since your curiousity is so piqued diablo:

it was our second date, not the first. i am pretty sure she is not the type of person to sleep with someone after knowing them only that short a period of time. or i am not dead sexy enough to have managed that. or a combination of the two.

if i recall it kind of got to that point just by being caught up in kissing and whatnot, and any there wasn't any expectation regarding sex. (or should i call it sleeping with?)

but yeah, like i said she doesn't strike me as the type to sleep around. at least with me, obviously. then again i may be way off and it was just that my allure is null.

you have never made out and messed around with a girl after a couple dates, but not had sex?

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I still don't get it, probably because you are being super vague. You made out with her, messed around etc, saw her completely naked and then decided to sleep over and not have sex? When you say "naked", do you mean you just got her shirt off or something? Usually if a girl is willing to let you see her completely naked, you are getting sex if you want it.

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since your curiousity is so piqued diablo:

it was our second date, not the first. i am pretty sure she is not the type of person to sleep with someone after knowing them only that short a period of time. or i am not dead sexy enough to have managed that. or a combination of the two.

if i recall it kind of got to that point just by being caught up in kissing and whatnot, and any there wasn't any expectation regarding sex. (or should i call it sleeping with?)

but yeah, like i said she doesn't strike me as the type to sleep around. at least with me, obviously. then again i may be way off and it was just that my allure is null.

you have never made out and messed around with a girl after a couple dates, but not had sex?

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I still don't get it, probably because you are being super vague. You made out with her, messed around etc, saw her completely naked and then decided to sleep over and not have sex? When you say "naked", do you mean you just got her shirt off or something? Usually if a girl is willing to let you see her completely naked, you are getting sex if you want it.

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Yes. Where's the video? We need video evidence before we can move on. Someone call security.

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since your curiousity is so piqued diablo:

it was our second date, not the first. i am pretty sure she is not the type of person to sleep with someone after knowing them only that short a period of time. or i am not dead sexy enough to have managed that. or a combination of the two.

if i recall it kind of got to that point just by being caught up in kissing and whatnot, and any there wasn't any expectation regarding sex. (or should i call it sleeping with?)

but yeah, like i said she doesn't strike me as the type to sleep around. at least with me, obviously. then again i may be way off and it was just that my allure is null.

you have never made out and messed around with a girl after a couple dates, but not had sex?

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Boy what a lot of confidence.

"We're smooching it up and it's getting sexy here -- she must not find me attractive."

Huh?

"I got her clothes off but didn't sleep with her."

"The next date I didn't even get a good night kiss, and she didn't invite me in."

Hmm. Some of this is not fitting together to make you look like you have your confidence and your act together.

I'm actually a little hessitant to do this, but it is actually making me sick having to sit by and see what people are saying about Olivia, and what they are doing to her. It does warrant mentioning that I know olivia via the Brian that caused lexington brian his name. I'm holed up in a hotel in Los Angeles right now, so I'll answer any questions regarding Olivia's character or intentions.

First of all, she feel stupid for posting the thing about the date on her weblog. She uses her weblog to keep in touch with her friends because she works roughly 45 hours a week, plus baby-sitting kids with CP to put herself through college to go to lawschool. She didn't think that he would read it, nor was it ever intended for anyone other than her small circle of friends. How Brian found out about the site, I have no idea short of him sitting around googling Olivia hoping to find her. Does it make it ok for her to do this? She feels guilty about it now, but she only intended to post that so her friends knew how her date went. It went poorly.

The real reason I'm posting this is that certain members of the forum seem to have taken to the thought of her getting a kick out of the attention. She has not. She hasn't been able to sleep due to the threatening messages. This contributed to her having to go to the doctors yesterday. Her mother's house was vandalized last night, which she has caused her even more grief due to some people's obession with putting her picture all over this site via her avatar and contacting her, calling her a whore and telling her that she should kill herself (some of your buddies aren't cool enough to use your cute little acronym to threaten people via the internet I guess). .

She contacted the forum owner and the moderators to close the post. I think it is safe to calling a 22 year old girl an attention starved whore who should kill herself while posting contact information easily falls under the line of a violating the "threatening, abusive, libelous, defamatory, obscene, pornographic, profane" portion of the terms of use.

I'm not sitting here on my high horse. I've ran my mouth on the internet many times and probably was involved with some mob mentality relating to defending other members of a community. But calling a girl a whore because she wanted to let her friends know how a date went, and then tried to defend herself when it was made to look like she was sleeping around with someone on the internet is just [censored] ridiculous. Even worse are the people with her picture as an avatar, apparently living vicariously through someone else's misery.

She's cried non-stop for two days. Her mom's house was vandalized (probably unrelated obviously) and now she's scared to go to sleep because she lives alone. She keeps getting messages telling her to kill herself. She's had to delete the few things she had for her friends on the internet.

The original thread was locked for a reason. Freedom of Speech doesn't allow people to make threats and defamatory comments. If you are one of the people who think they are captain funnay with her pic as an avatar, I know you are probably just trying to give lexington brian here a hard time, but it's creepy. Some of your members have acted very well, and I know it is just a few people sending the threats out of a very large community. But a few people seem to be obsessed with her and need to let it drop.

If your goal was to make one of the nicer and sweater girls I've met cry and physically sick, congratulations - you've won. Score one for the OOT Posse or whatever you call yourselves.

Oh, a couple more things. LouisvilleMojo isn't a dating site. It's a community here in Louisville that a lot of people belong to chat and the such, much like the 2+2 forums. They just have a much bigger tool for setting up your profile. Some people do use it as a dating site. The reason single is in bold is because the site does that for some reason. It's not her yelling and screaming for dudes. From what I know, she's gone on dates with basically three people in past year including lexington brian, and louisville brian.


Also, those calling her an attention starved whore because she has pictures with her with girls who aren't up to your standards are fools. Olivia has some pretty damn attractive friends. She's just not the type of person who would not be friends with someone because they weren't up to her standards or whatever.

Like I said, I'll be here for the next hour or so if you have any questions regarding her character or intentions, because I really can't sit by and watch her be torn apart on the internet. But I'd really rather some people grow up and let it drop. No more digging up her info. No more IMs. No more posting her picture all over the place. You want to bring up the infamous olivia story, whatever. This is an epic post. But you are ruining a wonderful young girl's life to impress your internet buddies, and it just needs to stop. Yeah, the internet is harsh, but hopefully the members of this board have enough collective maturity to stop all of this.

p.s. she does in fact say fabulous a ton.

if a moderator or the original poster could lock this thread too, that would be great.