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11-14-2005, 03:15 AM
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Quiet Friends
I don't know whether to call one of my friends shy or mute. He lives 2 doors down and all of our friends are friends so we hang out a lot.
He rarely talks. Ever. At most you'll get a few sentances out of him, and you can manage to hold a conversation with just him nodding a few times. He is the life of the party though. Everyone loves him. He has never said anything out of line or that people disagree with. He doesn't have much of an opinion either way. He never yells or gets mad but always seems generally happy even though he never shows much emotion. I've never met anyone like this and didn't know there were people that were actually this shy? Is this a common occurance? Do a lot of people out there know multiple people like this? I'm pretty sure this guy would have 0 friends if not for being a really good surfer/skater because its hard to hold a conversation with him and for him to meet new people unless he is introduced to them. 
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#2
11-14-2005, 03:20 AM
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Re: Quiet Friends
I knew a girl like this in college. We asked her why she was so quiet. She pretty much stated that she usually didn't have anything to add to a conversation. I experienced the same 'nodding' conversation a few times.
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#3
11-14-2005, 03:40 AM
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Re: Quiet Friends
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I knew a girl like this in college. We asked her why she was so quiet. She pretty much stated that she usually didn't have anything to add to a conversation. [/ QUOTE ] The fact that almost everything this guy says is gold should be proof that he has much more to add to the conversation than he thinks, if he does feel this way.
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#4
11-14-2005, 10:16 AM
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Re: Quiet Friends
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The fact that almost everything this guy says is gold should be proof that he has much more to add to the conversation than he thinks, if he does feel this way. [/ QUOTE ] Or maybe he reserves speaking for when he does have something to say that is gold?
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#5
11-14-2005, 12:34 PM
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Re: Quiet Friends
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[ QUOTE ] The fact that almost everything this guy says is gold should be proof that he has much more to add to the conversation than he thinks, if he does feel this way. [/ QUOTE ] Or maybe he reserves speaking for when he does have something to say that is gold? [/ QUOTE ] A wise man speaks because he has something to say; A fool speaks because he has to say something.
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11-14-2005, 03:31 AM
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Re: Quiet Friends
Sometimes it's cool as hell to hang out with people like this just as a break from normal people who talk your ear off (read: obnoxious girls).
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#9
11-14-2005, 03:35 AM
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Re: Quiet Friends
This was me in High School. I think its a low self-esteem issue. You don't talk because you don't want to be judged. I loosened up after I stopped caring what people think of me.
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