Would You Pop her Cherry?

[Richie Rich]

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This piece of information puts forth a difficult moral dilemma for me.
You see, I like this girl, sort of. She likes me a whole f'n lot. She also thinks I like her much more than I actually do. I enjoy spending time with her, and she's attractive to me, but I don't see this lasting very long. I doubt it lasts until Halloween. I do wish I liked her more, there's just something missing.

This girl likes me much more than she should after only one month. If I pop her cherry, she's probably going to think we're going to be together forever (she's a bit clingy) and tell me she loves me, etc. etc.

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So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?
Would you take a girls virginity if you really didn't think it wouldn't last?

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Haven't read the other posts, yet. But I think you just answered your own question.

Get a friend of yours to talk to her about it. Keep the virgin away from your closet and your friends diaphragm though.

[Namdrahsirhc]

Theres 2 ways to go about this and they all depend on what kinda person you are.

1. SIIHP - If you say that she's clingy now, wait till after the first time. She'll be in love and you'll be stuck, unless youre a dick

2. Don't SIIHP - Just go your seperate ways and maybe get a BJ or something.

Aside: This is from my personal experience, as i am in a relationship with a similar girl. I'm 20 and she just turned 19. She was a virgin when I met her, and she isn't now. I don't really love her but she loves me (she says so anyway). However, I just don't have the heart to break up with her, and the sex is good, so im stuck

[diebitter]

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I've done it. It wasn't all its cracked up to be. Don't it.

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I dunno. It's a bit tight the first 2 times, but then you got pussy that fits you perfectly. There's a lot to be said for that. Actually, I hate to be boring, but stick to the missionary/her on top but facing you for a while as well, cos once you start changing, it will get a little stretched out of shape, and you'll miss the snug fit.

[SGS]

No you can't do it for two reasons. Number one is she likes you way more than you like her and by [censored] her you cement the feeling she has and she thinks you feel the same way. Number two she likes you a ton and if you do [censored] her she will cling to you like none other and think she loves you. Not a good situation for poon if you ask me.

SGS

[krimson]

How the hell does someone with the name "cunning linguist" have to ask if he should hit it?!?!?

[RunDownHouse]

I'm with Jake and Patrick on this one. In all seriousness, you'll probably be doing her a favor.

[KaneKungFu123]

express these sentiments to her, she'll probally hop on anyways.

[shant]

I was in this exact same situation and I popped it. The repercussions were nowhere near as bad as I had envisioned. We broke up like 3 months later and it wasn't a big deal.

[The Truth]

I've been in your spot 3 times. I did it the first 2 times. 1st was god awful, she went crazy when we broke it off. 2nd one I ended up having to stay with her 8 months longer than I wanted too.

Sex aint THAT much fun.

-blake