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Old 10-28-2005, 02:40 PM
jakethebake jakethebake is offline
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Default Going through the motions...

Do you ever feel like you're just going through the motions? I've been feeling like this a lot lately, in almost every aspect of my life...work, most things at home, social interaction, relationships with friends & family.

There have really only been a couple of things I've been focused on or really felt like caring about. Everything else has just sort of been background noise lately. I seem to go through these periods periodically...like every couple of years or so. And they're hard for me to break out of.

I actually feel like just disappearing sometimes, going to live on the street or something. Not that I ever would, but I actually think in detail about what that would be like and what I'd do.

Does anyone else go through this regularly? What do you do to snap out of it?
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Old 10-28-2005, 02:44 PM
Bluffoon Bluffoon is offline
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

Spend some time with my son.
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Old 10-28-2005, 02:49 PM
A_C_Slater A_C_Slater is offline
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

Don't you have a 1 year old daughter?

Maybe you subconsciously want to abandon her rather than deal with the added responsibilty.

You sickeee!

You're sick!
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Old 10-28-2005, 02:50 PM
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

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Don't you have a 1 year old daughter?

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Take her out for some shrimp. You'll feel better. Post pics.
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Old 10-28-2005, 03:13 PM
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Don't you have a 1 year old daughter?

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Take her out for some shrimp. You'll feel better. Post pics.

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I like this idea the best. Go for 50 this time! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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Old 10-28-2005, 03:08 PM
jakethebake jakethebake is offline
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

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Don't you have a 1 year old daughter?

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Yes. My kids were one the the things I was referring to that i really care about. I have awesome kids. [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
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Old 10-28-2005, 02:48 PM
coffeecrazy1 coffeecrazy1 is offline
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

I feel like this daily at work, mostly due to the fact that I'm in a transitional period with a transitional job before graduate school and bigger, better things.

But...it sounds like you need a vacation, man. I find a bit of distance is always good for perspective.
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Old 10-28-2005, 02:52 PM
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I go through this all the time. What you're describing is depression. I usually just wait for something really bad to happen that resolves itself, and then I reasess my life, and realize things could always be worse.
Or, I go out and get really drunk, and then the next morning I am thankful no one died and I begin to appreciate things more
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Old 10-28-2005, 03:10 PM
jakethebake jakethebake is offline
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

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I go through this all the time. What you're describing is depression. I usually just wait for something really bad to happen that resolves itself, and then I reasess my life, and realize things could always be worse.
Or, I go out and get really drunk, and then the next morning I am thankful no one died and I begin to appreciate things more

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Yea. I getcha, but I don't feel depressed exactly. It's not a dark place. I'm not negative about things. Or waiting for bad things. It's more of a just lack of interest.
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Old 10-28-2005, 03:49 PM
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Default Re: Going through the motions...

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I go through this all the time. What you're describing is depression. I usually just wait for something really bad to happen that resolves itself, and then I reasess my life, and realize things could always be worse.
Or, I go out and get really drunk, and then the next morning I am thankful no one died and I begin to appreciate things more

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Yea. I getcha, but I don't feel depressed exactly. It's not a dark place. I'm not negative about things. Or waiting for bad things. It's more of a just lack of interest.

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That is still a symptom of depression. You don't have to be feeling sad to be depressed.
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