girls are annoying

[Rduke55]

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ok, i'm gonna say it real simple.

If you don't trust the girl no long distance relationship

If you do then long distance is fine.

you can't control her by telling her to not hang out with the guy, you can only make her a possesion/ resent you/ lie to you.

As i thought was clear and Irish apparently agreed, you trust or or you don't, and only he can decide that. All those people saying naked pictures when you weren't dating~!!@@@!@! are fixating on a guy who obviously wants to hook up with her, instead of the girl who said she won't hook up with anyone else.

It could be bullshit, but i have no idea how we're able to determine that.

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She did let him take naked pictures of her.

[TimM]

I need more info here. Please send along the naked pictures of the 11 other girls in the calendar and I will get back to you. Thanks.

[Jdanz]

she did, and i agree that it's not a good sign.

I personally don't think, however, that in this particular instance, that it's reason to immediately dump a (relatively) long term gf.

But the guy asked for advice and everyone elses is as valuable as mine and Irish who knows his GF better then us will have to decide which advice is actually germane to his situation.

[RunDownHouse]

Believe it or not, girls keep backups waiting in the wings just like guys do.

[astroglide]

if she acknowledges that he wants to bang her, she should realize that he's not a 'friend'.

if she doesn't acknowledge that he wants to bang her, she could be dumber than a bag of hammers.

this isn't macho insecurity, it's common sense. it's not even a double-standard - a guy would be completely guilty in this situation as well.

[Bluffoon]

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this is kinda what i'm saying, but i think people are massively overreacting to dinner and movies.

The idea that this relationship needs to be "salvaged" is just complete overkill in my mind.

I know i'm going to be in the minority here, but i frankly wouldn't give a damn at all if my girlfriend went to dinner/movies with a guy friend. I'd be more uncomfortable if the guy wanted to get in her pants, but i legitimately wouldn't care that much.

I think the 1 in 10 comment i made early is really important here. If you can't trust your girlfriend with a guy that likes her that YOU ARE AWARE OF how can you expect to really trust her ever, in any meaningful way.

I would be really really pissed if my girlfriend had the audacity to tell me who i could and couldn't have dinner with.

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You're right you don't go around telling people who to have dinner with. But you do dump them for it.

[cdxx]

if anything happened between him and her during those two weeks, you need to dump her. it will not end well.

so, 8 months dating and you are already thinking you'll live together? is that a little quick? (maybe i am commitment-impaired)

[SomethingClever]

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I am in Tacoma finishing up school

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PLU or UPS?

[Peter666]

Awesome. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Jdanz]

hey i've said my piece, take it for what it's worth, i'm no authority.