Got dumped while bangin' my girlfriend...

[judgesmails]

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Despite your protest to the contrary, it really sounds like you're still hung up on this chick.

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Maybe today. But not 2 days ago, and I certainly won't be 2 days from now.

Fair enough?

[Shajen]

You'll get nothing and like it.



Seriously though, tough spot. I imagine seeing her brought back a flood of feelings you thought you'd buried for good. I'd focus on the now and try to rebury her.

I hear this guy can help:



Weird.

I had an ex call me the day before I got married out of the blue. That was awkward.

[jakethebake]

Plus he does that cool little dance. "I'm all riiight. Don't nobody worry 'bout me......" [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[judgesmails]

I love the Caddyshack reference, obviously. Me and some friends actually used to play a private tourney every Sunday on PokerStars called "Bushwood". Most of my screen names are Caddyshack/Bushwood related.

Anyway, I agree with the main point of your post and ex's seem to have an uncanny ability to show up at just the wrong time...

Right Jake?

[jakethebake]

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Anyway, I agree with the main point of your post and ex's seem to have an uncanny ability to show up at just the wrong time... Right Jake?

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Normally I'd agree but in my recent case, her timing was uncannily good. But everyone needs to get off this thing.

[Ulysses]

There's one girl (who I haven't seen in 12 years or so) that I'd feel pretty much exactly this way about. There are a couple of others who I do see from time to time and have much milder feelings like this about. It's just natural, I think.

[bernie]

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We went on like this for some time, laughing and avoiding reality.

When the conversation turned real, things got tense and we both remembered the awkward and dissapointing terms of when we last parted ways.

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You mean you were avoiding your reality. Why bring up past crap? This is likely what made her nervous. It doesn't sound like the break up was a real picnic for her either. Even if she brought it up, brush it off. It was years ago. Change the subject back to something pleasant and recent or about the good times of the past.

She seems to be the only one that moved on to a degree. Her husband is an insecure idiot as is his mom. Unless, she was dating him while doing you. Then I could see it a little.

The reason you reacted the way you did? You probably never really got over her or the fact she dumped you. This was probably the first girl you really got emotionally bonded to instead of just banging. Those are the firsts the guys remember. Their emotional cherry being popped.

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[ptmusic]

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I had left one of my girl friends in a similiar manor. I had actually called it off and showed her the door.

Later on that night forgetting she had a key to the apt.

She let her self in striped down to her hot as hell little 110lb 38b cup b-suit and climbed on top of my half staffed mule.

I thought to my self OK i can do this. As she is riding my she asks me "Do your really want to leave this"

I paused for a second as I busted off a salty little rocket.

Yes, as I rolled her ass right back out the front door after taking her key.
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That was a great story.

-ptmusic