Re: GF drug use poll/question/help
as someone who has been affected by girls thinking the same way you are thinking, I think I can shed some light on this. I have had a long history with many drugs, some I have done more then others. It is unfair to your GF to judge her on it. I have been judged when I divulged some of my past activities and have then been left behind several times before anything ever got started. I think you are being very naive to think that many people will go through college now adays w/o having done a fair amount of rec drug usage. What she has done in teh past is very light. She did some e and she blew some coke, honestly, its not that big a deal. In fact she hasn't done all that much, and I am speaking from experience. THe root of all this is that you distrust her and you are also upset that she isn't what you originally thought of her, get over it. Its unfair to her for you to take this line of thought, if you like her, you like her. If you can't get over your judgements of her past, then do her and yourself a favor and end the realtionship
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