Is this a set-up by a slut?

[CallMeIshmael]

Tap it.

Its not close.

[smokingrobot]

i had a similar encounter with a girl who had a crush on me for years and years. i was seriously invovled with a girl for all that time and when she found out we broke, she almost instantly broke up with her bf. i did give her some attention... and it turns out we were hooking up before she really broke it off with the old beau.

that sad part is i know the dude, and he's a nice kid. i have nothing against him, i was feeling sorry for myself cuz my ex just dumped after having been in a 5 year relationship.

i ended up sleeping with her a few times, but seriously man, i regret it to this day.

if you have no qualms about the dude or her as a [censored]-buddy, then go right ahead. im just offering another take on it.

even now i still feel like a jerk, because inevitably, someone coudl catch feelings. in this case, the girl, and it just sucks to be on the unreceiving end.

im not saying dont do it. i think someone already mentioend pussy never knocks twice.

but just make sure you wont regret it later.

[HopeydaFish]

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Let me try to elaborate what nothumb is (I think) getting at, because it is excellent advice.

There are girls that like to toy with guys. They prey on guys who they think are weak and will fall for them. These girls are often very fun to be around because they can be wild and exciting. The problem is that they have a problem with their emotions, they have a problem with getting close to a guy (intimacy if you will). They want guys to like them, they want guys to fall all over themselves for them. Yet that's all they want, they have no interest in returning the affection.

What basically happens is this. You meet the girl at a party or whatever, get her number, hang out with her a few times over the next week or two and start to really like her because she is fun and good in bed. She seems to really dig you. So you try to move things along, take her out for a nice dinner or something, and before you know it she is ignoring you.

From her perspective, she got you to like her, so her mission is accomplished. Now she derives satisfaction from watching you squirm and chase after her trying to figure out what went wrong. From your perspective, you're totally lost because you thought this girl liked you, and now you're chasing after her as she is boning someone else.

Augie, you said you didn't want a relationship, but it's easy to become attached to a girl even though you aren't dating her (or even exclusive). I think nothumb was warning you that this girl seems to fit the mold described above, so he was just warning you that it might not be worth it in the long run.

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Yup, this is right on the money. I've banged a few chicks like this, started to like them, only to have them turn cold on me once the thrill of the chase was over.

In the OP's case, he doesn't really care if the girl ends up liking him, but that will probably end up causing him more problems in the end. If he doesn't pay attention to her after he's banged her, she'll try harder to get him to like her. She'll call him more, tell him what he wants to hear, etc...etc... At this point, one of two things will happen: 1) He'll start liking her and she'll lose interest immediately because the thrill of the chase is now gone. Or 2) He won't like her, she'll get pissed off, and will tell her boyfriend that you banged her. Oh, and she'll be sure to tell you that she told her boyfriend too...just to make you sweat a little. She's an attention whore...no matter what you end up doing after you bang her, she'll do whatever it takes to get attention.

[masse75]

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princessleia: hey, listen, don't tell cody i asked for your number or anything, okay?

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Bad screen name for her. Princess Leia was independent, strong headed, and not a ho bag, with the exception of kissing her brother.

Should be named Padme. Whiny, in love with a Dark Lord, and she obviously gets around...without condoms.

[nothumb]

Yeah, the story is not that interesting. I'm not sure where I've told it before. Maybe in a near-death experiences thread.

Basically, large guy comes into my house with a knife while I'm drunk, watching TV on the couch. Comes up behind me and puts the knife to my throat. My hand is by my throat, blade of the knife goes into the blade of my hand by the base of my pinky, point goes into my shoulder. A brief tussle ensues, which ends with my getting the knife away from the guy. He leaves, takes a bunch of pills and totals his car. I escape without really serious injury.

The funny part of this story (which I will include to avoid making this a redundant re-post and drawing the wrath and ire of our moderators [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] ) is that afterwards the girl I was with (not the guy's girl, some other chick) and I left the house in kind of a panic, expecting this guy to come back with a gun. So we didn't clean anything up. Next morning I come home - very hungover - and my roommate has got the girl's underwear nailed to the wall. But somehow he didn't notice the blood all over our old couch. (Or maybe he just assumed he didn't want to know).

NT

[chucksim]

Yes she's a slut.

No, you should not worry about being set up.

You study long, you study wrong. Wrap it and tap it.

[TimM]

[lu_hawk]

it's only worth it if you haven't had sex in like six months or something or are trying to build up your numbers if you are that kind of guy. even then i still might not do it. with girls like this you sort of enjoy it while you are doing it(but not really because you know it is a big mistake even while engaged in the act) and then afterwards you really regret it.