What do I do here...

[jakethebake]

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You should have banged her this weekend. Of course she didn't want a relationship out of it, she just wanted to "have fun".

Man you should have settled for the one nighter. I'm telling you it was there.

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This is clearly correct.

[nolanfan34]

I'll give a few thoughts counter to some of what's said in this thread.

The situation all depends on your motives. If you're only looking to hook up, then you probably missed the chance. If you feel like you genuinely like her, and are looking for more of a potential dating situation, then that's different.

If that's the case, then I say to do nothing outside of the group gathering. Don't try to pursue her directly while she has the BF. Your only winning chance, is for there to be some group situations where you can hang out again, in a casual manner. Don't try to make any moves when this happens. Just be yourself, and have fun spending time with your mutual friends.

Down the road if she loses the BF, then you've already accomplished a lot. She's seen how you act when you're not outwardly trying to impress her, and she's seen that you get along with mutual friends - something her current BF seems to lack.

You pretty much have to take the passive route here, if you force the issue, I think only bad things will happen. Let it play out in a natural way.

[morgan180]

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You should have banged her this weekend. Of course she didn't want a relationship out of it, she just wanted to "have fun".

Man you should have settled for the one nighter. I'm telling you it was there.

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This is clearly correct.

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if you just wanted to hook up this was clearly you're only opportunity. my brother met some girl in palm springs that was married but wanted to get back at her husband, so she slept with him, but she didn't kiss him.

[Smackdab]

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You should have banged her this weekend. Of course she didn't want a relationship out of it, she just wanted to "have fun".

Man you should have settled for the one nighter. I'm telling you it was there.

[/ QUOTE ]

This is clearly correct.

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if you just wanted to hook up this was clearly you're only opportunity. my brother met some girl in palm springs that was married but wanted to get back at her husband, so she slept with him, but she didn't kiss him.

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I understand that. Wonder if she swallowed?

[morgan180]

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You should have banged her this weekend. Of course she didn't want a relationship out of it, she just wanted to "have fun".

Man you should have settled for the one nighter. I'm telling you it was there.

[/ QUOTE ]

This is clearly correct.

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if you just wanted to hook up this was clearly you're only opportunity. my brother met some girl in palm springs that was married but wanted to get back at her husband, so she slept with him, but she didn't kiss him.

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I understand that. Wonder if she swallowed?

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i'm told it was more of the 'target practice' variety.