Meeting women online

[man]

she (a) is weirded out by the concept of calling a guy she met online, and is thusly taking her time, or (b) totally forgot about it. she probably totally forgot. but either way the best thing to do is forget about her and go to happy hour (not necessarily in that order). I would also stop meeting women online, because you're drawing from a much less desirable pool of people, and the chances of her turning out to be who you hope she is are very low.

[jakethebake]

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she (a) is weirded out by the concept of calling a guy she met online, and is thusly taking her time, or (b) totally forgot about it. she probably totally forgot. but either way the best thing to do is forget about her and go to happy hour (not necessarily in that order). I would also stop meeting women online, because you're drawing from a much less desirable pool of people, and the chances of her turning out to be who you hope she is are very low.

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This may or may not be true. But don't do anything give her expectations to live up to, ot she may be worried about it. Don't push. Let her take her time or you'll just chase her away. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[LeatherFace]

Results: you forgot to turn your cell phone on.

[tolbiny]

"I would also stop meeting women online, because you're drawing from a much less desirable pool of people"

This is bullcrap, have youmet most women out there? 90% of the population is undateable!!!

Realistically though there are pros and cons to internet dating. A major pro is that you know that the women there are looking, none of this buying a girl drinks until her boyfriend shows up crap, or getting cockblocked by her fat friend. You also have a larger pool in that you can pay specific attention to anyone of them, and not have to directly compete with music, smoke, noise, work or whatever goes on.

One piece of advice though- when you talk to a girl the first time no matter how well it goes don't let the conversation go over 20 mins- just don't.

[tolbiny]

one more tidbit- if she has done this before (met guys over the net) then she most likely has run into an obsessive loser who wouldn't leave her alone- that sort of thing creeps women out and this could just be a quick test to make sure that you aren't one of those guys.

[mslif]

You should really just chill out. Do not start emailing her or IMing her asking her why.... You will come across as an ass. Just wait for her to contact you.

JERRY: Elaine, what percentage of people would you say are good looking?

ELAINE: Twenty-five percent.

JERRY: Twenty-five percent, you say? No way! It's like 4 to 6 percent. It's a twenty to one shot.

ELAINE: You're way off.

JERRY: Way off? Have you been to the motor vehicle bureau? It's like a leper colony down there.

ELAINE: So what you are saying is that 90 to 95 percent of the population is undateable?

JERRY: UNDATEABLE!

ELAINE: Then how are all these people getting together?

JERRY: Alcohol.

[jakethebake]

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You should really just chill out. Do not start emailing her or IMing her asking her why.... You will come across as an ass. Just wait for her to contact you.

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This is very good advice! It would have been very helpful at one point in my life. Don't screw it up early on. If you do, you'll never be able to fix it. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Patrick del Poker Grande]

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You should really just chill out. Do not start emailing her or IMing her asking her why.... You will come across as an ass. Just wait for her to contact you.

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This is very good advice! It would have been very helpful at one point in my life. Don't screw it up early on. If you do, you'll never be able to fix it.

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Pfffftt! Don't listen to these weak-passive sissies. Life awards aggression. Get up in her face. Go get it, tiger!

[Duffman]

Dude, just post her myspace account. We'll do the rest.