Loaning Money

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I think you've got two choices and they are both sorta desperation plays.

The first is intimidation - threaten her with a lawsuit. You shouldn't actually need a lawyer to file a suit in small claims court, but having one always helps. Unfortunately, it sounds like you don't have any documentation, so your only hope here is that she's too stupid to realize this (and if she bilked you out of this much money, she's probably not stupid).

The other option is to play on her sympathy. Make up some sob story about why you really need the money and hope she takes pity on you and pays at least some of it back. What's your pride worth?

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Law suit is out of the question and sympathy is not my style...the intimidation factor is what Im leaning to...I'm a rather large individual whom can use that to my advantage...I like the Chili Palmer in Get Shorty sitting int the living room watching TV middle of the night scenario til she wakes and I ask where my dang money is...I think thats intimidating enough

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what, you going to beat her up?

you acted like a moron, you got played out, move on, I'm sure she has.

And without any documentation, it's going to be hard for you to prove it was a loan and not a gift anyways, appears as though you are SOL to me.

[SheetWise]

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... she is well known in the circle of people I know here.... and all of them give good recomendations in regards to her financial stability.

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No doubt. They've seen how she lives. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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what, you going to beat her up?


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I don't believe I would personally assault her, but Im sure she has some nice things that she considers valuable to her.

And I never claimed to be mentally stable!

[FouTight]

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what, you going to beat her up?


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I don't believe I would personally assault her, but Im sure she has some nice things that she considers valuable to her.

And I never claimed to be mentally stable!

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No, but you also never claimed to be flat out retarded, which you clearly are.

So you are saying you are going to use your large size to break stuff of value to her, all because you got suckered?

"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"

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what, you going to beat her up?


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I don't believe I would personally assault her, but Im sure she has some nice things that she considers valuable to her.

And I never claimed to be mentally stable!

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No, but you also never claimed to be flat out retarded, which you clearly are.

So you are saying you are going to use your large size to break stuff of value to her, all because you got suckered?

"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"

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Why break something I can sell?

UPDATE:
In a discussion I had with the individual owing me the cash..."Picking up checks today and should be able to get it out to me today or tomorrow" Or "Will possible be in town this weekend and will bring the money with"

[eastbay]

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UPDATE:
In a discussion I had with the individual owing me the cash..."Picking up checks today and should be able to get it out to me today or tomorrow" Or "Will possible be in town this weekend and will bring the money with"

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Next up:

"So she came back out but there was a small problem with the money that will be resolved soon. The total is now up to $25k. Should I be worried?"

eastbay

[4_2_it]

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UPDATE:
In a discussion I had with the individual owing me the cash..."Picking up checks today and should be able to get it out to me today or tomorrow" Or "Will possible be in town this weekend and will bring the money with"

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I know this is obvious, but it needs to said in plain language. Do not spend one red cent on her if she comes to town. Even if she hands you a check, do not provide her a bankroll, you need to make sure the check will clear.

Good Luck.

[ChipWrecked]

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Next up:

"So she came back out but there was a small problem with the money that will be resolved soon. The total is now up to $25k. Should I be worried?"

eastbay

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I laughed. I'm loving this thread.