How do I eventually get back together with this girl? - Page 3

bernie · #21 09-11-2005, 06:45 PM

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I then crawled back to her 2 days later and tried to get back together with her. She said no of course and that she just wanted to be friends for right now(yeah, the let's be friend line). We then had it out again and right now we are not speaking to each other.

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This is of course the foundation of all great relationships...

You realize how pathetic this story looks?

Quit being a needy, clingy bitch. (unless you reeealy think that's attractive to anyone) Too young to be so wrapped up into a chick. Especially if you only went with her for a whole 3 friggin' months. You're probably even more attracted to her because you can't have her right now.

No contact for at least 6 months to a year.

Get under somebody other than her.

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Evan · #22 09-11-2005, 06:47 PM

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I pre-emptively broke up with my girlfriend. Now I want her back.

tl;dr

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are you related to that cliff notes guy?

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I hope so. That guy was one of my favorite posters ever and I miss him.

IggyWH · #23 09-11-2005, 06:47 PM

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Get drunk, then call her.

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This is of course the best idea.

I'm serious

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I don't know how serious you are, but this really isn't a bad idea. Since you're drunk, you really don't care if you let out more than your sober self would. SHe'll either dig that you can open up to her like that or it'll piss her off. Either way, you'll know by the end of the convo if your in or need to move on.

#24 09-11-2005, 06:48 PM

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I then crawled back to her 2 days later and tried to get back together with her. She said no of course and that she just wanted to be friends for right now(yeah, the let's be friend line). We then had it out again and right now we are not speaking to each other.

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This is of course the foundation of all great relationships...

You realize how pathetic this story looks?

Quit being a needy, clingy bitch. (unless you reeealy think that's attractive to anyone) Too young to be so wrapped up into a chick. Especially if you only went with her for a whole 3 friggin' months. You're probably even more attracted to her because you can't have her right now.

No contact for at least 6 months to a year.

Get under somebody other than her.

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Ok you're right. Thanks for knocking some sense into me.

newfant · #25 09-11-2005, 06:48 PM

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yeah, it isnt hard. You just sleep with one of her friends. Its amazing how fast that makes her think of you as more than just a friend

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Sounds like the OP is too smitten for that. She has all the power and she'll never see him as anything more than a friend because he is too weak to treat her like the POS that she is.

gorie · #26 09-11-2005, 06:52 PM

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yeah, it isnt hard. You just sleep with one of her friends. Its amazing how fast that makes her think of you as more than just a friend

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Sounds like the OP is too smitten for that. She has all the power and she'll never see him as anything more than a friend because he is too weak to treat her like the POS that she is.

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wtf ? if he thought she was a POS why would he want her ? and what makes her a POS ? other than being a girl, i mean.

touchfaith · #27 09-11-2005, 06:52 PM

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Get drunk, then call her.

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This is of course the best idea.

I'm serious

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This is by far the worst option, which, as a result, would probably make it my choice.

do it

siccjay · #28 09-11-2005, 07:01 PM

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Starting with friendship is bad. Once you get in the friendship boat, if you ever get out, you drown.

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I've gotten out of that boat many a time.

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yeah, it isnt hard. You just sleep with one of her friends. Its amazing how fast that makes her think of you as more than just a friend.

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While I agree that it will work, this guy doesn't sound like he wants to bang any of her friends.

My statement was meant for guys who are way to into a girl to try and bang her friends.

#29 09-11-2005, 07:02 PM

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I do think though that some relationships have gone through far worse than this and that there's still a chance to SIIHP .

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FYP

MrTrik · #30 09-11-2005, 07:02 PM

The best relationships I've ever had started with friendships. I'm not talking about a failed dating experience or failed sexual relationship where she eventually pulled the 'just want to be friends' card. I'm talking about women I actually became friends with first. Eventually through relization of similar outlooks, similar interests, and of course some sexual chemistry they turned into more than just friends. And like I said if I look back, the best three relationships I've ever had with a woman started this way. It doesn't seem to start with dating, sex, then relationship nearly as often. But that's just me I guess.