Locating children from past one-night-stands...

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I find odd that you assumed the guy would want to "take anything over" when it was never mentioned in the OP or by anyone else. I get the feeling you are somewhat of a man-hater.

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sure, if you enjoy paying alimony.

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I don't think its alimony?

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what do you call it then, just child support?

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I am pretty sure, yes.

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sure, if you enjoy paying alimony.

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I don't think its alimony?

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what do you call it then, just child support?

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yes...alimony is from spouse to spouse of a marriage - like say a wife is used to a certain standard of living, you divorce her, she wants to maintain her previous living standards, you are found at fault (say cheating) - you pay alimony

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I find odd that you assumed the guy would want to "take anything over" when it was never mentioned in the OP or by anyone else. I get the feeling you are somewhat of a man-hater.

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im not a man hater in the least...i just stated my opinion on the issue all the way, b/c its always attacked. If he wants to know fine, but if he wants a part in that childs life x number of years later thats a form of taking part of its life over (by just SHARING anything with my child)

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sure, if you enjoy paying alimony.

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I don't think its alimony?

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what do you call it then, just child support?

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yes...alimony is from spouse to spouse of a marriage - like say a wife is used to a certain standard of living, you divorce her, she wants to maintain her previous living standards, you are found at fault (say cheating) - you pay alimony

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that's good to know, thanks. i'll have to remember to keep my standard of living low if i ever get married, just in case.

[Richard Tanner]

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you are found at fault

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Or often times, found guilty of possession of a penis.
Solution: Move to Indiana (or another applicable state) with no alimony.

Cody

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I find odd that you assumed the guy would want to "take anything over" when it was never mentioned in the OP or by anyone else. I get the feeling you are somewhat of a man-hater.

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If he wants to know fine, but if he wants a part in that childs life x number of years later thats a form of taking part of its life over (by just SHARING anything with my child)

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Again you are selfish. It is his child as well.

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No, no, defintely do not want to take anything over...So far, best I can tell from my posts, I am just looking for...

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A tax write-off
Someone to call me "Daddy"

I am no home wrecker!

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For tax purposes, I think the IRS guidelines say to assume that every one night stand spawned at least one offspring.

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As I understand it, she is refering to the fact that up until now, said "father" has not put in any work in raising the child, and as such, shouldn't be entitled to reap the rewards.
No agrument concerning the genetic link however.

Cody