Girls night out. Your g/f or wife wants to go...

[JaBlue]

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sure, the waitresses are scantily clad, but they still have tops on.


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What does it matter if you're not touching them whether they have their clothes on or not?

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well it seems like its the best you'll do for a guys night out without pissing off your girl (??)

[Edge34]

Dude,

You're really having trust issues, and it becomes more and more obvious with every reply. Well, its either that or you're pissed off that your woman doesn't let you go, and gets pissed when you say she shouldn't go.

SHOULD it work only one way? No. Thankfully, maybe I'm just one of the lucky ones who has a lady I trust and that trusts me back.

Like I said, as long as she's coming home to me at the end of the night, I'm not going to worry myself stupid over what she MIGHT do. What's the use?

[bernie]

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trust is very important in a relationship. it sounds like you lack some of this

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Umm...Before you judge, I have not stated my personal opinion on this.

Merely throwing out 'common' scenarios. Both from what I've witnessed, heard, and been party too.

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[ethan]

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As long as she's coming home to me, game on.

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This is correct, as is just about everything else Edge has said in this thread.

[DrPublo]

Hannibal Lechter mask?

The Doc

[bernie]

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well it seems like its the best you'll do for a guys night out without pissing off your girl

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Then why should it be okay for her to go out to a place where there will definitely be touching? Everyone's saying it's a trust issue. It's funny how it usually works. It's only a trust issue 1 way. You don't go to a place because it might piss her off, yet she doesn't mind going to essentially the same type, actually, more directly socially interactive place.

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[bernie]

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[bernie]

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You're really having trust issues, and it becomes more and more obvious with every reply.

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As i mentioned in a response below, I haven't stated my opinion. If you can find an opinion of mine that says Im yay or nay for it, be my guest. Just common scenarios that do happen. Someone has to play devil's advocate.

I think it's an interesting topic. Especially if you've really seen just what happens. I probably should've put a post asking people if they've ever been part of what goes on on a girls night out.

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[Bukem_]

Alot depends on who she is going out with. If its a bunch of her married girlfriends going to see a movie its no big deal.

If its her single friends and they are going to a club she is up to no good.

[JaBlue]

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well it seems like its the best you'll do for a guys night out without pissing off your girl

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Then why should it be okay for her to go out to a place where there will definitely be touching? Everyone's saying it's a trust issue. It's funny how it usually works. It's only a trust issue 1 way. You don't go to a place because it might piss her off, yet she doesn't mind going to essentially the same type, actually, more directly socially interactive place.

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what can i say, talk to her about it. girls dancing is a lot more innocent than you think