MySpace Trip Report

[diebitter]

I think you did okay.

This 'grab at breasts' thing has me intrigued though, can you explain? was you just trying to be funny when you put it this way, or did you seriously just grab em?

[Yako]

Lol, nah, I didn't just grab them, like I slid my hands to them casually. We were making out, our hands were all over.

[kurosh]

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A while later my hand ventures near her pussy, and she moves that away too. So I figure I'm just gonna let her set the rules, no point in getting kicked out first night there, and besides, I figure I've made my intentions clear... We keep making out, and eventually she moves my hand to her [censored].

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[jaydub]

Yako,

The biggest mistake I see is doing an entire weekend together right off the bat. Better would be to come Saturday and leave Sunday. Too much at once can be a problem and even in relationships, weekend trips are best saved for a while.

As for what to do now. Do not pressure / beg her into coming down to visit. Just say you need to know so you can plan your weekend accordingly which should be true by the way. If she doesn't come down, it might be worth teasing her about it online. That depends on the dynamics of your situation. Also, keep trying to meet people, myspace, out on the street, mickey d's, wherever.

J

[B Dids]

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So yeah, anyone care to go through my post and point out all the misplays I made.

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Here's the crucial one:

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the trip I took this weekend to meet up with a girl I met on MySpace.

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Dude- everybody gets laid off of myspace these days, or at least that's what the kids tell me. It's not exactly just for nerds or anything.

[Mason Hellmuth]

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Dude- everybody gets laid off of myspace these days, or at least that's what the kids tell me. It's not exactly just for nerds or anything.

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You're right, I phrased things poorly in an attempt to be witty. My problem with this was more in the distance and the fact that he stayed at her parents' house.

[wayabvpar]

I don't see the point of going to meet random internet chick #45683335 without sex being explicitly guaranteed. This broad sounds like far too much work unless you are REALLY into her. Move on to the next MySpace chick and sharpen your deal-closing skills.

[CollinEstes]

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I don't see the point of going to meet random internet chick #45683335 without sex being explicitly guaranteed. This broad sounds like far too much work unless you are REALLY into her. Move on to the next MySpace chick and sharpen your deal-closing skills.

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I am sure that I will be shunned by the OOT crowd here, but I think this dude wasn't just looking for sex but probably thought he had a chance at an actual relationship with this girl.

[Yako]

Nah, I ain't wasting any more time on her, nothing will come of it. But yeah, I don't socialize much, so taking the 2 hour train trip was really worth it for me I guess. Plus it was like a small vacation, which was enjoyable.

[jaydub]

Mason,

For someone not getting any, a 2 hour ride to fool around is worth it. Or as a buddy always said, "If you're not getting any, no problem, just lower your standards". Yeah, he [censored] some fugly chicks....

J