guys, what do you do in this situation?

[pearljam]

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Oh... then no, that's definitely not a concern. I've known this girl for about 9 years now, and it's been as friends the whole time.

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Oh, then in that case buy her the sandwich you cheap bastard.

[Popinjay]

I would say make the bills separate. You don't want to run into a far more awkward situations where she is constantly freeloading off you.

[daryn]

since i am back i will continue providing the correct answer i suppose

what you do is you pay for the total, then you go sit down. she will soon realize you paid for her sandwich. at this point she will ask you how much she owes. you tell her, she pays you.

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[daryn]

addendum:

also acceptable is saying "don't worry about it" but only if you know she would say the same thing, and that is very important.

[gorie]

pay.
not because she's a girl and you're a guy, but because that's where the situation has lead you and the best thing to do without making it into a big deal.
then you hope she pays you back later, or buys next time.

i've paid for lunch for co-workers before , and same back at me, we don't really keep track we just kind of assume it's not a big deal as long as the bill is paid and it's not always the same person.

but i mean this is a one time thing, and as long as its not a lot of money, just pay.

[Lawrence Ng]

The correct 2+2 OOT answer is:

Pay for her sandwich, then stick it in her pooper afterwards.

Lawrence

[ChipWrecked]

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since i am back i will continue providing the correct answer i suppose

what you do is you pay for the total, then you go sit down. she will soon realize you paid for her sandwich. at this point she will ask you how much she owes. you tell her, she lets you SIIHP.

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[bd8802]

If this is truely a two-way freindship pay for the damn food. Your friend should reciprocate the next time you go to a place like this.

[daryn]

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since i am back i will continue providing the correct answer i suppose

what you do is you pay for the total, then you go sit down. she will soon realize you paid for her sandwich. at this point she will ask you how much she owes. you tell her, she lets you SIIHP.

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oh yeah, that's why i left. completely unfunny repetitive "jokes"

[mason55]

I don't understand what the problem is. If it's not about the money, she won't get the wrong impression then the answer is dependent on one thing:

If she would pay in this situation then you pay. If she wouldn't pay then I wouldn't consider a friend, only an aquaintence.