im pathetic and single (well double) faceted

[CardSharpCook]

yeah, man, you need interests. A girl I dated told me, "interested is interesting." The idea being that if you go out into the world and find things that interest you, people (girls) will find you interesting. But it is its own reward, really. Surely there is something you've always wanted to learn/do? I had one of those moments 2 years ago and picked up a guitar. I absolutely love playing now.