dating a girl with a lot of guy friends.... - Page 2

jakethebake · #11 09-12-2005, 09:16 AM

She sounds like a fun girl. There's no reason the two of you can't have a good time.

I know what you mean about girls with a lot of guy friends though. If you're going to get involved with them and you're at all jealous, it's always in the back of your mind because whether she believes it or not they all want to sleep with her...

Anyway just have fun and see how things progress. You don't have to decide right now whether or not to "go for the kill". But it seems like she liked you so see what happens. You don't have to get serious about her or anything. She doesn't sound like she's really looking for that nayway.

Phill S · #12 09-12-2005, 10:55 AM

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Anyway just have fun and see how things progress. You don't have to decide right now whether or not to "go for the kill". But it seems like she liked you so see what happens. You don't have to get serious about her or anything. She doesn't sound like she's really looking for that nayway.

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Good advice right there.

If she is nice looking with a great personality then go for it, if it works out nh, if not you wont be left wondering - nice looking single girls who you can have a good time with are hard enough to find at my age (21), at 35 they are almost unheard of. If you are worried about baggage of past relationships or even a past marriage then you may never find someone your happy with.

Of course, if the male friends thing really bothers you underneath it all, dont expect her to change. If you change around that or it doesnt work.

Otherwise, gl to ya.

Phill

jaydub · #13 09-12-2005, 11:06 AM

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SO - if she calls - do I play it cool - go for the kill? - and do I really wanna date a girl with a lot of guy friends, even if she's not actually sleeping with them? I dunno - she is very flirty - not a good sign -

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Uhh nice metaphor there.... [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

I say avoid her but do so for selfish reasons. I really don't want to see any whiny posts from you when your jealousy acts up.

Besides she's almost old enough to be your mom, sicko.

BusterStacks · #14 09-12-2005, 11:07 AM

Here's the deal with guy friends, they either:

a) want to have sex with her

b) have had sex with her and think they probably could again.

c) are gay.

I have never met an exception to this rule.

morgan180 · #15 09-12-2005, 11:16 AM

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Here's the deal with guy friends, they either:

a) want to have sex with her

b) have had sex with her and think they probably could again.

c) are gay.

I have never met an exception to this rule.

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and "C" makes up only 10% of the population.

morgan180 · #16 09-12-2005, 11:17 AM

also - the fact that you are already concerned about this leads me to believe that yes it is going to be a problem. you should still go out with her, just keep it as a balance if you find yourself head over heels for this one...

jaydub · #17 09-12-2005, 11:19 AM

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Here's the deal with guy friends, they either:

a) want to have sex with her

b) have had sex with her and think they probably could again.

c) are gay.

I have never met an exception to this rule.

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You are missing a fourth and fifth option:

D. do not want to have sex with her as they currently have much better options.

E. do not want to have sex with her as she is / was seriously involved with a close friend

diebitter · #18 09-12-2005, 11:23 AM

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You are missing a fourth and fifth option:

D. do not want to have sex with her as they currently have much better options.

E. do not want to have sex with her as she is / was seriously involved with a close friend

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We're talking about men, right? D does not apply if it's on offer. E might for an 'is' but not for a 'was'

jaydub · #19 09-12-2005, 11:29 AM

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You are missing a fourth and fifth option:

D. do not want to have sex with her as they currently have much better options.

E. do not want to have sex with her as she is / was seriously involved with a close friend

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We're talking about men, right? D does not apply if it's on offer. E might for an 'is' but not for a 'was'

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Yes, men.

I disagree, most men will not sleep with a 5 if they have their fill of 7s or 8s.

whiskeytown · #20 09-12-2005, 11:31 AM

If you were really Henry Earl, you could have...

RB