Dating a girl who has a kid.....

[schwza]

i personally could not deal with that (i'm 25). if you can, more power to you.

[mason55]

If you're asking on here you're not ready. You'll just be screwing with both your lives.

[LALDAAS]

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Get some tail first

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don't shoplift the pootie from a single mother.

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[Slow Play Ray]

I'm 28 and considering dating a 30-year-old with a kid, and still up in the air about it. If I were your age (damn how did I get so old), I wouldn't even consider it. Actually, I shouldn't be considering it anyway, because I work with her as well, but I am just a glutton for punishment. Not to mention stupid.

[shakingspear]

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Anyway, Im 18 and just found out some great joys, like going to bars hitting girls etc.

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This is probably the funniest line I've ever read on these boards.

You have got to tell me what the etcetera is.

[LALDAAS]

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Actually, I shouldn't be considering it anyway, because I work with her as well, but I am just a glutton for punishment.

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Dont [censored] where you eat! I have done that also, to boot it was my boss. Wow that was ugly.

[jakethebake]

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I dated a single mother, in fact, I was engaged to one. Its not worth it. leave, leave right NOW!

Get some tail first but then run! run very fast. Dont look back.

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Are you sure you're giving him the best advice?

A viable option would be to carry on dating the single mother (and enjoying a family environment), whilst also chasing tail. Many single mothers like to/have to stay at home with their child (especially if they can't afford a babysitter and you don't offer to pay for one, even with your poker winnings), and would understand that a young man needs to go out with friends drinking etc. You can often really leverage this side of the relationship to have regular sex, your meals prepared but also enjoying whatever else comes along.

Then, when you meet a really attractive woman who has the intelligence to take contraceptive precautions, leave the single mother and run, run as fast as you can.

[stigmata]

I wouldn't worry too much about it. She's only 19 - she probably wants a bit of fun also, some time to be young and have fun, and not be a mother.

As long as your both clear what yoy want/expect from each other, I can't see why its such a bad thing.

I know people who have been in similar circumstances, sometimes the relationships worked, sometimes they didn't.....

It does help if you like children though [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Slow Play Ray]

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Actually, I shouldn't be considering it anyway, because I work with her as well, but I am just a glutton for punishment.

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Dont [censored] where you eat! I have done that also, to boot it was my boss. Wow that was ugly.

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Not to mention stupid.

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