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Re: How to answer this common female question?
It's a loose/loose situation.
If you answer yes, she will think you are shallow and that you just into her looks. If you answer no, you are a liar and you are going to sound phony. I think it is best just to tell her that you have never been confronted with the problem and therefore cannot give an opinion as to how you would act. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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It's a loose/loose situation. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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[ QUOTE ] It's a loose/loose situation. [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] If the question comes up, the clothes aren't loose. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
"Quit asking stupid questions"
The bottom line is you never EVER answer this question. Avoid it at all costs. There is no good that can come from it. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
Hopefully youve already instilled a negative body image into her and she wont ever get fat as shes way too self concious about her appearance.
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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"Quit asking stupid questions" The bottom line is you never EVER answer this question. Avoid it at all costs. There is no good that can come from it. [/ QUOTE ] you can't avoid it if someone puts you to it directly. And if they do that, then your answer should be "i don't know, but there's probably a much better chance of me breaking up with you if you ask questions like that". If its an honest non-trapping question then give an honest answer. Ask her as well. "If you gained 10 pounds? No, of course not. If you gained 400? Well, if I weighed 450 would you be as attracted to me? |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
this isn't even the root question though.
This question is designed to make her feel that you love her unconditionally, so even if she got fat, or got burned horribly, or whatever highschool [censored] she comes up with to ask you, you'll still love her. That's what she's looking for, emotional investment. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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this isn't even the root question though. This question is designed to make her feel that you love her unconditionally, so even if she got fat, or got burned horribly, or whatever highschool [censored] she comes up with to ask you, you'll still love her. That's what she's looking for, emotional investment. [/ QUOTE ] exactly, and hence the first part of my response. There's fishing and there's fishing. Asking for a cute compliment or some emotional security is fine, but putting someone in an awkward situation and trying to see if you can get them to say what you want is not, and no guy OR girl should stand for it. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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[ QUOTE ] "Quit asking stupid questions" The bottom line is you never EVER answer this question. Avoid it at all costs. There is no good that can come from it. [/ QUOTE ] you can't avoid it if someone puts you to it directly. And if they do that, then your answer should be "i don't know, but there's probably a much better chance of me breaking up with you if you ask questions like that". If its an honest non-trapping question then give an honest answer. Ask her as well. "If you gained 10 pounds? No, of course not. If you gained 400? Well, if I weighed 450 would you be as attracted to me? [/ QUOTE ] Much better post than mine. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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your answer should be "i don't know, but there's probably a much better chance of me breaking up with you if you ask questions like that". [/ QUOTE ] I think this is correct. I really couldn't ever see my self with anyone that asked things like this to begin with. |
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