Gameplan for getting this chick... Advice Requested

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She also came to the US to marry this dude

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If mail-order brides are your thing, sure. Keep trying.

[TomCollins]

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She also came to the US to marry this dude

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If mail-order brides are your thing, sure. Keep trying.

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She wasn't mail order.

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[TomCollins]

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wow...this is a borderline situation
above average, but not hot enough to go through a bunch of bs

hmmm...ignore her a few times, or talk about other women and how well things are going with them. If this doesn't stoke the fire, you are permenantly in LJBF category.

My advice is to make it extremely clear that you want her without saying it. Flirt excessively with her, touch her in non-threatening ways whenever you get the chance, hold eye contact when talking. Always make sure she has fun while she is with you. Limit the amount of time you spend with her so she always wants more of you. If she is having fun with you she will want to be around you more, just give her limited doses of yourself and it will drive her wild and she will have to give you attention in more extreme ways. If she doesn't respond to you in a sexual manner, just start drifting away and if she doesn't try to get your attention again then just move on and break off contact.

[TomCollins]

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My advice is to make it extremely clear that you want her without saying it. Flirt excessively with her, touch her in non-threatening ways whenever you get the chance, hold eye contact when talking. Always make sure she has fun while she is with you. Limit the amount of time you spend with her so she always wants more of you. If she is having fun with you she will want to be around you more, just give her limited doses of yourself and it will drive her wild and she will have to give you attention in more extreme ways. If she doesn't respond to you in a sexual manner, just start drifting away and if she doesn't try to get your attention again then just move on and break off contact.

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I think I've been doing this some. The day before she left, she called me at the last minute wanting to meet up at a bar or something, and I blew her off. She kinda blew me off the two days before that, so I figured I had to make a stand somewhere. Being in different cities, I think it will be easy to not get "too much".

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Tom - let's say we get beyond the fact that 1) she asks for these favors; 2) she has a psycho ex-husband; 3) she dated someone for months without even kissing them; 4) you will be long distance. Obviously you like her alot.

Echoing DB's advice - just make a move. You'll regret it if you don't. Str8Baller's advice is OK if you see each other alot. But since she will be pretty far away soon, time is of the essence.

Good Luck With This Foreign Chick,
-Al

[TomCollins]

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Tom - let's say we get beyond the fact that 1) she asks for these favors; 2) she has a psycho ex-husband; 3) she dated someone for months without even kissing them; 4) you will be long distance. Obviously you like her alot.

Echoing DB's advice - just make a move. You'll regret it if you don't. Str8Baller's advice is OK if you see each other alot. But since she will be pretty far away soon, time is of the essence.

Good Luck With This Foreign Chick,
-Al

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That was my plan when she planned on staying over before her flight. Get her as drunk as possible, try to bang her, and if it doesn't work, oh well. I see the red flags, but compared to the other damaged goods that are the prospects ( I don't even want to go there), this is definitely as good as its gonna get.

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Echoing DB's advice - just make a move. You'll regret it if you don't. Str8Baller's advice is OK if you see each other alot. But since she will be pretty far away soon, time is of the essence.

Good Luck With This Foreign Chick,
-Al

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This is true. I didn't realize time was critical. I usually don't deal with long distance relationships since they never seem to work out. Just make a move like he said. I prefer not to be drunk, but if you both are and the time seems right, go for it! Timing is very important, don't move in for the kiss until you have atleast cuddled/held hands. One huge thing to look for is for her to lick her lips when you are close and face to face, that usually means she is ready to be kissed. Good luck man!!
PS. Don't ask to kiss her either. It's a huge sign of insecurity.