"hey can i get your screenname?"

[bravos1]

Just volunteer to take them to a cool party. Tell them you'll pick'em up at their house. You'll obviously need their # to inform them that you are coming to pick them up.

You'll end up with their phone #, house address, and a good BJ if your smooth about it!

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tbach

start with getting their email address. work on exchanging a few emails and establish a basic level of communication. once that is accomplished just drop in asking for their screen name. It should and will seem like the natural progression.

on another note, I don't think going the email/chat direction is the best method for starting something but if it is the route you take the above is how I would do it.

[BobboFitos]

teddy, pull da trig nig

[twankerr]

Phone number is the easiest to get. Ask what you are doing they are doing this weekend. No matter what they say, say you're doing xxxxx until yy:yy. Then say you'll call them when you are done, at which point you are simply amazed by the fact you don't have their numbers. Proceed to ask for number. Very simple, human interactions.

[tbach24]

Okay here's a somewhat more specific example:

I'm talking to a girl I've just met and will see around campus quite a bit, but not really have much a chance to really talk to more than a "hey-hey" passing thing. We get along and all that stuff. I'm interested in her but I'm also interested in about 50 other girls so it's not that big a deal. When we're wrapping things up would it be alright just to be like "can I get your screen name?" even just thinking about it just seems weird.

Consider these variables:
1. She's in a lesser grade
2. She's in a higher grade (much more important than age in hs)
3. She's in a couple classes with you
4. You've already talked to her a lot (ie gotten to know her)

I don't paticularly want to really ask any of these girls on a 1-on-1 sorta thing (yet).

[peachy]

if a guy asked me for this...i wouldnt answer him and just walk off...no matter what he looked like