It also appears that the Indian PM speaking to Bush turned down direct aid. However, International aid is flowing into the country.
India to Aid -- butt out
India in group to coordinate aid
Perhaps the countries dont want direct govt to govt aid (these are non-aligned countries after all). Also I think India is now in a financial and strategic position to start playing higher up in the world political stage. Many thanks from them for the Globalization and outsourcing efforts of the American corporation.