Two Plus Two Older Archives  

Go Back   Two Plus Two Older Archives > 2+2 Communities > Other Other Topics
FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

View Poll Results: Well....
Highly -EV 27 30.68%
Slightly -EV 41 46.59%
Slightly +EV 16 18.18%
Highly +EV 4 4.55%
Voters: 88. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 11-18-2005, 01:36 AM
Rev. Good Will Rev. Good Will is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: failing computer science
Posts: 591
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I voted no, but I'd def have him pay me back via buying me a few beers.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:10 AM
benza13 benza13 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 320
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

What everyone else says: if he offers, take it, if not make sure you at least get some beer out of the deal.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:13 AM
d10 d10 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Ft Campbell, KY
Posts: 313
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I would suggest he chips in for gas but if he's broke or just too cheap, I'd still take him and not really care.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:14 AM
jdl22 jdl22 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 609
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I think he should only pay for the out of the way bit. If I understand properly that means nothing.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:34 AM
gamblore99 gamblore99 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2004
Posts: 271
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

i think you can just say tell him its win win. He gets a cheap ride, and you get a cheaper ride. Or if you have a give and take relationship have him buy you some beers later.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:42 AM
webmonarch webmonarch is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Washington, DC
Posts: 61
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I'm guessing you are the guy with the revoked license? [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

TO answer the question, I think the appropriate thing is for the guy to offer to pay for gas. If he fails to do that, I think asking for gas money is pretty damned reasonable, unless this guy regularly does favors for you.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 11-18-2005, 02:53 AM
James Boston James Boston is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Alabama
Posts: 314
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

Don't ask, but if he offers I guess you can take it.

I would never ask someone to chip in for gas if I was already going to be driving somewhere.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 11-18-2005, 11:01 AM
OtisTheMarsupial OtisTheMarsupial is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Oz
Posts: 571
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I'd ask him to buy me dinner or something. And he'd better bring along his best music for us to listen to on the drive.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 11-18-2005, 11:14 AM
krimson krimson is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: wwdsd
Posts: 559
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

I wouldn't ask but I'd certainly expect him to offer (and take the money). If he didn't offer, or buy beer, or pick up a bill at a restaurant, or any sort of "thank-you" gesture, I probably wouldn't drive him the next time.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 11-18-2005, 12:44 PM
TiK TiK is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: May 2003
Location: New York, NY
Posts: 0
Default Re: Give and Take Ethical Question

[ QUOTE ]
I wouldn't ask but I'd certainly expect him to offer (and take the money). If he didn't offer, or buy beer, or pick up a bill at a restaurant, or any sort of "thank-you" gesture, I probably wouldn't drive him the next time.

[/ QUOTE ]
Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 04:35 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.