Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?

[pearljam]

for the record, this had nothing to do with SIIHP or any other sex act.

[asofel]

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for the record, this had nothing to do with SIIHP or any other sex act.

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i'd go ahead and actually give the results before something bad and unexpected happens...

[MrWookie47]

Seriously. Inquiring minds want to know. And if you made a bad decision, don't worry about it. Bad decisions get posted here every day, and then the posters get properly berated into submission. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[utmt40]

We need some details.

[HopeydaFish]

Please, we have so little...we need you to tell us what happened.

Trust me, what OOT'ers will assume happened will be much worse than what really happened.

Whatever really happened, it won't be any worse than the guy who wants to screw his friend's 19 year old daughter, or Kurosh's girlfriend getting gangbanged while skinny dipping.

Edit: I see that you caved and spilled the beans. A little anti-climatic, though...but not that embarassing.

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I am embaressed to divulge the results but lets just say I did what a true OOT'er would do.

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YOU BOUGHT THAT GODDAMNED AIR MATTRESS, DIDN'T YOU?

[Patrick del Poker Grande]

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I am embaressed to divulge the results but lets just say I did what a true OOT'er would do.

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You flew out there at SIIHP? Or do you mean for real what an OOTer would do - sit at home and take it, letting her walk all over you?

[pearljam]

I guess I better post the results, thanks alot for the responces guys. Well what ended up happening was she blew off the air matress thing saying it would be inconvenient to blow it up every night. At that point I knew for sure there was no more meaningful relationship here. So I just said OK I understand. What I ended up deciding is that im going to continue to have the relationship just for the sex and companionship. But I am no longer seeking a a long term relatinoship with her even though it hurts to admit it.

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I guess I better post the results, thanks alot for the responces guys. Well what ended up happening was she blew off the air matress thing saying it would be inconvenient to blow it up every night. At that point I knew for sure there was no more meaningful relationship here. So I just said OK I understand. What I ended up deciding is that im going to continue to have the relationship just for the sex and companionship. But I am no longer seeking a a long term relatinoship with her even though it hurts to admit it.

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I think you should reconsider. You will feel much better about the situation looking back on if you don't let yourself get walked on. Also putting your foot down and being a man will turn her on more than anything.

In the end it's your life.

At the very least you should call her on her BS and tell her that you want to start seeing other people as well as her.

Perhaps its just me but the thought of some bitch thinking she is getting one over on me is intolerable.

Also you need to do some serious thinking about whether or not you can turn your feelings off. Otherwise you are going to end up sulking in room and driving yourself crazy thinking about what they are doing.

[Deftoner]

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Perhaps its just me but the thought of some bitch thinking she is getting one over on me is intolerable.


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Amen. Grow a [censored] pair OP. Your getting played, know your getting played..yet still want to take it. I don't care how low self-esteem you have (which is apparent by your posts) no one deserves to put up with this [censored], go [censored] her and then tell her its over but if she still wants to fool around your down. Then just leave it at that. Its really that simple.