Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy? - Page 14

PokerBob · #**131** 07-29-2005, 11:09 AM

start [censored] other girls immediately

imported_The Vibesman · #**132** 07-29-2005, 11:09 AM

Why not? They're already sleeping together.

jackdaniels · #**133** 07-29-2005, 12:03 PM

The problem here is that she asked this question in the first place. Never mind buying an air mattress - if she plans on bangin the dude anyway, it will happen whether there is an alternate place for him to sleep or not. You have here a girl who is asking you to agree to something terribly inappropriate and as others here have pointed out, there is NO answer that you can give that will be correct. If you really love this girl and think you have a future with her - tell her how this makes you feel and explain that if you are to remain a couple, she can never think that these things are ok. If you are just happy to have a pretty hot chick to bang and call once in a while - let her do whatever she wants, keep bangin her like nothing happened and bail as soon as you find something better (you know that she would if the situation was reversed).

That is all.

kurosh · #**134** 07-29-2005, 01:00 PM

I have a semi-long-distance relationship with my GF too and I'm with her right now so I asked her. Her best friend is a guy. She said that she would make him bring a couch or airbed or something. IF for some reason he *had* to sleep in the bed with her, she would be fine with it and expect me to too. She said she would understand why I was upset and talk to me about it. She wouldn't just tell me that this is what would happen.

sfer · #**135** 07-29-2005, 01:13 PM

The same dude she likes to play with naked in a pool?

Bulldog · #**136** 07-29-2005, 01:13 PM

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IF for some reason he *had* to sleep in the bed with her, she would be fine with it and expect me to too.

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Maybe, for one night tops, this could be tolerated.

PITTM · #**137** 07-29-2005, 01:20 PM

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The same dude she likes to play with naked in a pool?

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yep, goodbye credibility...hello girlfriend [censored] other dudes in a pool.

rj

DarkForceRising · #**138** 07-29-2005, 01:25 PM

I am sure this has aready been said but just in case...

End the relationship (politely- I met someone else or whatever) NOW and spare your dignity. No whining or "staying friends". Just turn your back and go the other way. Fighting through the pain of a break-up is good practice. It gets easier each time.

pearljam · #**139** 07-29-2005, 01:26 PM

I am embaressed to divulge the results but lets just say I did what a true OOT'er would do.

DMBFan23 · #**140** 07-29-2005, 01:28 PM

WTF? that's not results. I mean I'm glad you stuck it in her pooper and everything but did you give her [censored] about the dude staying over or did you let it happen? and if you gave her [censored], did she cave? and if not, did you break up with her?

btw congrats on the siihp