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12-05-2005, 04:14 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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Call me a cynic, but it doesn't matter. You'll meet at the restaurant or maybe some bar. You'll have a few drinks, have a nice meal. You'll have a great time. Everything will click and you'll think she's perfect. You may or may not have great sex. If not, you will on the next date. But after a couple of months, she'll pull a Bruce Lee. She'll rip your heart out of your chest, eat it in front of you and leave you bleeding to death in the middle of the floor. [/ QUOTE ] I thought it was funny 
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12-05-2005, 05:00 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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What is the roommate situation for each of you? craig [/ QUOTE ] good question. I currently have 2 roomates, in a big apt. - not an ideal "bring her back" situation, but not bad either. unsure of her status.
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12-05-2005, 05:07 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
Zod,
I do not understand your pressure comment. Why would there be pressure? Pressure on whom? Showing care / thought is not what is important at this stage. Additionally, many women are more comfortable with the meet somewhere situation. But it's not a huge deal either way. Dinner is a mistake, do something fun that doesn't involve you buying her [censored] for spending time with you. Good luck J
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12-05-2005, 05:08 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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[ QUOTE ] What is the roommate situation for each of you? craig [/ QUOTE ] good question. I currently have 2 roomates - not an ideal "bring her back" situation, but not bad either. unsure of her status. [/ QUOTE ] Well, I had 3 when I lived in Boston and I always found it easier to go back to my place. But, we each had seperate rooms and all 3 were cool. So, we could all chat for a few minutes and then my date and I could go to my room. Somehow there was always a segway to that. That is another reason for non friday or saturday dates. Roommates will go to bed earlier for work/school and then you don't have to deal with them. So you could go back to either place, have a drink/talk in the shared areas of the house and not just try to make an ackward dash to the bedroom. Plus, with roommates asleep/out of the way you can makeout first on the couch. Of course, I really don't know your intentions. But, with me, either it happened on the first night or not at all. And this isn't because i was a scumbag who would only date girls who give it up on the first night. I just think that either the attraction is there or it is not. craig
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12-05-2005, 05:28 PM
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Somehow there was always a segway to that. craig [/ QUOTE ] I think its spelled "segue". But anyways, if you don't want to drive, then I'd suggest Cambridge. Alewife is meh. Plenty of good places in Cambridge.
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12-05-2005, 05:32 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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[ QUOTE ] Somehow there was always a segway to that. craig [/ QUOTE ] I think its spelled "segue". But anyways, if you don't want to drive, then I'd suggest Cambridge. Alewife is meh. Plenty of good places in Cambridge. [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, I think you are right. I think I was thinking of that stupid scooter thing. craig
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