Is alcohol the answer? If so, straighten me out OOT

[KDawgCometh]

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I want so badly to fit in, bang normal chicks, have a good time. I plan on rushing in the spring.

I want to live the right college experience but with the way my life has panned out until now, I think I really gotta learn up or I could do something really stupid.

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clayton. I give you props for asking these questions and doing your best to change.

You will fit in with those you relate to best. Cliques don't really exist in college, you need to find those who you feel most comfortable around, and not force the issue. There is no such thing as a normal college experience, there is your college experience

I know that the greek system is big down there, but don't rush just to get laid. One night stands can be fun, but honestly, they don't solve anything. I have never had a GF and always took care of getting laid through one night stands. They haven't been satisfactory in the slightest. I have also drank plenty and done plenty of drugs, but that hasn't ever made me fully happy.

You are worrying way too much about this, just relax when you are with girls. Its a matter of numbers, the more you hook up with, the better chances you will have of getting your joint worked. Just loosen up(and by that I don't neccessarily mean get drunk) and have fun. You are a freshman in college, this is a time for you to try new things and go about things in different ways. Mainly, just have fun and don't try so hard clayton

Being blacked out is like having the camera still rolling, but with no film in it.

[manpower]

Hit on girls who smoke. Remember, "if she smokes, she pokes."

Furthermore, having two drinks at a frat party isn't going to make you black out. You don't have to do keg stands every time you drink, just ease into it.

[TeeJayORTj]

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Hit on girls who smoke. Remember, "if she smokes, she pokes."

Furthermore, having two drinks at a frat party isn't going to make you black out. You don't have to do keg stands every time you drink, just ease into it.

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Find the chicks who like the nose candy. Girls who party with the nose party in bed.

[Blarg]

Alcohol gives girls an excuse for doing what they really want to do anyway. Which is have sex a lot more than you might think it is. Sometimes even with you specifically. Or at least you'll do for the evening. It provides deniability on a level deeper than the lack of inhibition alcohol gets you. This is vital to the psychological comfort of a lot of girls, who aren't as comfortable yet with the idea of expressing their sexuality yet as their hormones are. They're just as horny as you, but sometimes those inhibitions roadblock them, especially if they're around their friends, where they can become very subconscious -- and status conscious, if only to please their friends. Who would often be just as happy if she didn't get laid at all, if they're not getting some.

Booze is a handy excuse for girls to do what they want to do. Don't stand in their way. Provide it, but with caution. You don't need her barfing on you.

[diebitter]

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Alcohol gives girls an excuse for doing what they really want to do anyway.

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Here's the first of today's slices of fried gold!

[benza13]

In college alcohol really helps with getting chicks (at least the kinds that will [censored] without tons of effort on your part). After college the bars are a good place to pick up chicks, so again, alcohol is generally present. Getting to know your tolerance is +EV, generally girls don't like guys that are falling over drunk. (although I have pulled some of the best game of my life on 3 separate blackouts, not sure if it was worth it in any of the cases though)

[Blarg]

For your part, start drinking slowly, if you want to try drinking. When you're not used to booze, even a couple of drinks can get you pretty darned buzzed. That's fine, maybe a little embarassing, but who cares. Take your time with one or two drinks, and just see how you feel when buzzed, what you can handle. Stay away from your car for a while. Don't do those fool drinking games or contests if you can possibly avoid it. That's some serious business that's usually pretty stupid and unhealthy.

Eat something solid first, if you're going to booze much. Something that will stick in there for a while, like meat or cheese. Greasy heavy stuff works great. And if you get feeling really lazy or nauseous the next day, eat like a pig and crap it all out.

Also, drink water between drinks if you want to be able to drink a lot for a long time without getting sick. Alcohol dehydrates you, and that's a big part of the reason people get sick. The water will also help you pee out some of the toxins and alcohol. Don't drink soda or juice instead of water, if you can avoid it; they can actually make you even more thirsty or strain your liver. Water is by far the best.

[ClaytonN]

solid advice so far from everyone who contributed, i'm learning a lot already

but sadly i have class in like 6 hours so it's off to bed

[uw_madtown]

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Stay away from your car for a while.

Eat something solid first, if you're going to booze much. Something that will stick in there for a while, like meat or cheese.

Also, drink water between drinks if you want to be able to drink a lot for a long time without getting sick. Water is by far the best.

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All key points.