How did you deal with life after college?

[Pyromaniac]

or the original likely source of that quote,

"He not busy being born is busy dying"

which I sort of like in relation to the OP's question. What do you want to be? Usually that's half the challenge right there...college prepares you (sometimes) to get a job, but not at all for how to live your life. Or how to even *decide* how to live your life.

Try reading Po Bronson's book "What Should I Do With My Life". It might help. (It might not. You don't have much to lose by reading it, though.)