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Should I keep the money?
As some of you know, I teach high school. I switched schools this summer, to one about 60 miles away. However, one of my students I had at my old school (I'll call him Adam), tracked me down, and e-mailed me to ask me if I could write a recommendation letter for him, as he is a senior now. He is a player on the varsity basketball team, and said he had a lot of schools interested in him. I said I'd be more than happy to fill one out for him, so he mailed me the recommendation letter to fill out, and said that his mom would be sending me some postage-paid envelopes to the different colleges, and all I would have to do is make copies of the recommendation letter, and mail them off.
So a few days after that, I get the recommendation letter to fill out. A few days after that, I get an envelope from Adam's mother, and inside are the postage-paid envelopes to various universities, but there is also something else - a clear envelope with a $20 bill inside, telling me that this is for my time and for copying. Now, I can just make copies on the school copy machine, so it doesn't cost me anything, and as for my time? Well, I'll just say if I weren't making the copies and stuffing them into envelopes, I'd probably just be wasting time picking my nose, or doing something similarly unproductive. I don't feel right keeping this money, but I don't have an address for Adam or his mother to send it back. What should I do? |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
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As some of you know, I teach high school. I switched schools this summer, to one about 60 miles away. However, one of my students I had at my old school (I'll call him Adam), tracked me down, and e-mailed me to ask me if I could write a recommendation letter for him, as he is a senior now. He is a player on the varsity basketball team, and said he had a lot of schools interested in him. I said I'd be more than happy to fill one out for him, so he mailed me the recommendation letter to fill out, and said that his mom would be sending me some postage-paid envelopes to the different colleges, and all I would have to do is make copies of the recommendation letter, and mail them off. So a few days after that, I get the recommendation letter to fill out. A few days after that, I get an envelope from Adam's mother, and inside are the postage-paid envelopes to various universities, but there is also something else - a clear envelope with a $20 bill inside, telling me that this is for my time and for copying. Now, I can just make copies on the school copy machine, so it doesn't cost me anything, and as for my time? Well, I'll just say if I weren't making the copies and stuffing them into envelopes, I'd probably just be wasting time picking my nose, or doing something similarly unproductive. I don't feel right keeping this money, but I don't have an address for Adam or his mother to send it back. What should I do? [/ QUOTE ] Send it to the owner of the batting cages. |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
its only 20$
donate it or go to a strip club. |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
Uhhh, this is clearly a bribe, right?
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Re: Should I keep the money?
Keep it. It a common custom to give teachers gifts after they write recommendations for a student, especially when they have to write more than one rec. I gave thank you gifts last year after teachers wrote college entrance exams last year, and $20 there way of saying thank you.
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Re: Should I keep the money?
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Uhhh, this is clearly a bribe, right? [/ QUOTE ] no its definitely not, this is not out of line. |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
Call your old school to get his address and return the money. Your position as a teacher demands you hold yourself to a high standard of ethics, such that even the appearance of impropriety is a problem.
If you do everything you can to return the money and are completely unable, keep it. Intent is the issue. |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
Jesus, how are you even asking this question? Email him back, get his address, and send him the money.
Seriously, your moral compass is all out of whack. |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
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Keep it. It a common custom to give teachers gifts after they write recommendations for a student, especially when they have to write more than one rec. I gave thank you gifts last year after teachers wrote college entrance exams last year, and $20 there way of saying thank you. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Should I keep the money?
Seems to not be a big deal but I would consult your ethics handbook and or higher ups on what the policy is for these type of things. This seems small but you don't want it to become one of those taking office supplies home with situations. If the school has a zero tolerance policy or something, you never know what something like thisc could cause.
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