Strap On Scenario

[Yeti]

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After further discussion I've been given the option of seeing her nude and doing "non-sexual" touching if I give her a massage.

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WTF?

Whatever, just make sure you get pics.

I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no." I'd have to agree with Dom and Miaj and say it's no big deal. If my girlfriend wanted to do this I'd totally let her, but I would have to approve the dildo.

[asofel]

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I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no." I'd have to agree with Dom and Miaj and say it's no big deal. If my girlfriend wanted to do this I'd totally let her, but I would have to approve the dildo.

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The simple answer is worrying that someone will say "haha ur gay!@! OMFR!!LOL0RZ"

The more honest answer is most guys don't want to talk or think about things near their pooper.

[Dynasty]

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I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no."

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Because insecure men (mostly young) actually believe that if you have sex with a woman a certain way, you might be a homosexual.

[jokerthief]

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I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no."

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Because insecure men (mostly young) actually believe that if you have sex with a woman a certain way, you might be a homosexual.

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Saying that a guy who refuses to be sodomized is homophobic is a stretch to say the least. I for one would not do this. I once had hemeroids and the exam, which is nothing compared to being sodomized by a dildo, was one of the most uncomfortable things I've ever experienced. I can't imagine being so hard up for sex to allow a woman to do that to me. I'd rather jerk it.

[ethan]

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I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no."

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Because insecure men (mostly young) actually believe that if you have sex with a woman a certain way, you might be a homosexual.

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Saying that a guy who refuses to be sodomized is homophobic is a stretch to say the least. I for one would not do this. I once had hemeroids and the exam, which is nothing compared to being sodomized by a dildo, was one of the most uncomfortable things I've ever experienced. I can't imagine being so hard up for sex to allow a woman to do that to me. I'd rather jerk it.

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This is entirely reasonable. I, for one, didn't mean to imply in my post that turning her down would imply homophobia. Rather just that "OMG GAAAAY" was a stupid argument for not this.

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I once had hemeroids and the exam, which is nothing compared to being sodomized by a dildo, was one of the most uncomfortable things I've ever experienced.

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I bet if most women based their idea of vaginal sex on how their OB/GYN exams felt, we wouldn't have very many women that wanted to try sex... I can't imagine a speculum feels very comfortable, and I'm not quite sure your analogy applies.

I remember how uncomfortable I was about the whole situation, when I had an hemorrhoid exam.

That being said, I've had girlfriends that have played around "down there" and there's something to be said for taking chances [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Now, I've never had anythng remotely dong-sized stuck up my butt, but I'd certainly allow an (extremely hot) woman who'd i'd had a crush on (forever and a day) to be the first to do so, if that got me into her pants (as long as i could be assured that it wasnt gonna be like [censored] a bucket of water).

Relaxing is key.

[Clarkmeister]

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I don't get why the general reaction is basically: "Hell, no." I'd have to agree with Dom and Miaj and say it's no big deal. If my girlfriend wanted to do this I'd totally let her, but I would have to approve the dildo.

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Let's say you've been crushing on a girl for the past 9-10 years. For some reason or another (she's dating someone when you're single and you're dating someone when she's single) you've never been able to hook up. This girl is extremely hot, and is one of those rare types that can "just be one of the guys" (plays multiple sports, watches sports, can out drink most of your friends) but also knows how to "dress up" which is why she has been one of your best girl friends since you can remember.

During one drunken conversation at the bar one night, you let it slip that you've always wanted to have at least one night with her, because you know it would be great.

She says she would love to do it, but if you get to f**k her she gets to f**k you too...with a strap on.

You have the ability to be s**tfaced, pick the strap on at a local "love boutique" and also purchase some lube.

Do you do it?

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No, if she was that special you would've dumped the person you were seeing while she was single to be with her. Since you didn't, it can't be worth having her SIIYP.

[Supersetoy]

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No, if she was that special you would've dumped the person you were seeing while she was single to be with her. Since you didn't, it can't be worth having her SIIYP.

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Actually, to add more to the story, she was dating one of my best friends throughout high school, who became my roomate for almost 3 years in college. There was no way we were dating during this time. I've moved out now, and she's got her own place.