Just another sorry thirty-something!

[slickpoppa]

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If she is allegedly too stressed out to care about having sex, then why is she doing such things that are intened to increase her sex appeal?

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She realizes she has a problem and these are things she's doing conscously or unconsiously to boost her self-esteem and make herself feel sexy again.

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Yes, I realized that possibility, but if that were true, why isn't she taking a more active role in rekindling their sex life? It seems like LSUfan is making an effort, but she is giving lame excuses.

[swede123]

mslif,

I don't want to derail this one but I was just wondering if you actually look at all like Monica Bellucci. If so lets run away together.

Swede

[jaydub]

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If she is allegedly too stressed out to care about having sex, then why is she doing such things that are intened to increase her sex appeal?

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She realizes she still wants some cack and these are things she's doing conscously or unconsiously to help her look hotter to the [censored] she's cheating with

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Is this what you meant, Jake?

Swede

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I did say that was a possibility.

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Heh, she's more likely to have 2 lovers than 0.

Get a private investigator and a divorce lawyer. Protect yourself.

[LSUfan1]

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When I read your initial post, I though that maybe she did not feel attractive anymore or that your marriage had become too routine. Then I read about the LBT and the thongs. As a woman (who has been married before) I found this behavior troublesome and I seriously think she is being unfaithful. If you are not the one enjoying her new accessories, somebody else is. Has she been working late? Has she gone to see friends more than usual? Stress at work is not a good enough excuse IMO.
I would not recommend buying her anything. Seeing a therapist would be a better idea or start following her around.

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I will admit that I have been worried that she was cheating on me a few times since the sex was so infrequent. She is a very conservative type however (the tatoo was really a shock to me) and I just don't see it (maybe I'm blind).

She hasn't been showing any of the signs of cheating though. She doesn't work late, doesn't spend more time with her friends than before, and I can freely check her e-mail.

I have considered adding some type of software to monitor her online time, but I just don't think this is the case.

[jakethebake]

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She realizes she has a problem and these are things she's doing conscously or unconsiously to boost her self-esteem and make herself feel sexy again.

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I don't buy that for one second.

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I outlined two possibilities. This is one. Everyone is jumping on the other. I'm just saying don't jump to that conclusion immediately.

[4_2_it]

Just look for unknown numbers on your cell phone bills. That is one of the easiest ways to catch a cheating spouse (besides email).

[mslif]

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When I read your initial post, I though that maybe she did not feel attractive anymore or that your marriage had become too routine. Then I read about the LBT and the thongs. As a woman (who has been married before) I found this behavior troublesome and I seriously think she is being unfaithful. If you are not the one enjoying her new accessories, somebody else is. Has she been working late? Has she gone to see friends more than usual? Stress at work is not a good enough excuse IMO.
I would not recommend buying her anything. Seeing a therapist would be a better idea or start following her around.

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I will admit that I have been worried that she was cheating on me a few times since the sex was so infrequent. She is a very conservative type however (the tatoo was really a shock to me) and I just don't see it (maybe I'm blind).

She hasn't been showing any of the signs of cheating though. She doesn't work late, doesn't spend more time with her friends than before, and I can freely check her e-mail.

I have considered adding some type of software to monitor her online time, but I just don't think this is the case.

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If her behavior has remained the same, then I would highly recommend a therapist. Your marriage is in peril here.
Good luck to you.

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Now here is the thing. I am not your everday macho-idiot who only seeks one thing (although it would be nice to get that one thing).

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Well, I am one, not married, and I have lots of sex. Maybe you should do something to get the testoserone flowing again. Go to the gym, play a sport, at least take on a passion for something, anything. Women find MEN attractive.

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mslif,

I don't want to derail this one but I was just wondering if you actually look at all like Monica Bellucci. If so lets run away together.

Swede

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The resemblance is striking!

[daveymck]

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Just look for unknown numbers on your cell phone bills. That is one of the easiest ways to catch a cheating spouse (besides email).

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My gf's brother in law was totally stupid in this regard. He was ringing a number constantly on his mobile and his bill went up hugely. He could of got away with it but the idiot wasnt thinking, he got the phone from his wifes other sister who was getting all the bills and seeing what he was up too she knew what time he met her , when he got the taxi back from seeing her when he was "in the pub".